Eleanor Alexander |
All the best to one of the best!
Eleanor
PS. I still remember the birthday celebration at
your summer home during the '90s.
Eleanor Alexander
Assistant Professor
History, Technology, and Society
Georgia Institute of Technology, Atlanta, GA |
Ernest Allen Jr. |
Many happy returns on your 60th, Nell. May you continue
serving as an inspiration to progressive scholars everywhere!
Ernest Allen Jr.
Professor of Afro-American Studies
University of Massachusetts at Amherst
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Harriet Alonso |
Happy Birthday Nell! You have been a wonderful role
model for me while I've struggled with writing the story of the Garrison
children. Thank you so very much for your example.
A big hug on the big day,
harriet (alonso)
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Herbert Aptheker |
Dear Glenn Shafer
So Nell is 60--soon she will be grown up!
I remember Nell's friendship. In the old McCarthyite
days, it took some fortitude to greet this terrible Radical. Almost all
turned away. But Nell was as sweet as usual and warmly greeted me.
My best to her. And how lucky you are to be able
to sign yourself "Nell's husband".
Cordially
Herbert Aptheker
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Ed Ayers |
Dear Nell,
Congratulations on your birthday! You have long led
and inspired entire fields of history and I know you will continue to
do so for many years to come. I do ask, however, that you save some graduate
students for the rest of us. Have a wonderful celebration!
With warm regards,
Ed
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Houston & Charlotte Baker |
Dear Nell,
Happy, Happy 6oth birthday from your colleagues of
years past!! Have a wonderful day!
Best wishes,
Houston and Charlotte
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Suzanne Baldwin |
Nell - Have a delightful birthday! If your parents are any indication of
what lies in store for you in life, you are truly blessed! I've met you
and Glenn only on the occasion of celebrating the milestones of Frank and
Dona over the years. I've been impressed by your graciousness, your wisdom,
your sense of humor, and the deep sense of love and appreciation that is
evident as you interact with your mother and father. Your tears of joy and
reverence as you introduced various speakers at the 65th Anniversary party
were truly beautiful.
Frank and Dona often speak of how proud they are of you, of how much
joy you bring to their lives, and what a blessing it is - particularly
for Dona - to share in the experience of writing and publishing.
Enjoy this celebration of your life. Thank you for the gift you are to
the world!
Peace and blessings,
Suzanne Baldwin
(The First Church Family)
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Priscilla Barnum & Ted Draper |
Six T's for sixty:
Time for writing,
Time for painting,
Time for reflection
Time for new adventures,
Time for friendship,
And Time for tea with us (at Echo Lake)--
Ted and Priscilla
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Emily Belcher |
Happy Birthday, Miss Nell.
May you have a celebration worthy of your distinctive personality, commanding
intellect, elegance, grace, and witty charm to complete this illustrious
occasion.
With warmest best wishes for continued health and rich blessings,
Emily Belcher
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Derrick Bell
(see
photo album) |
You must be kidding. Nell simply can't be approaching
her 60th birthday. Yes, I met her when I came to Cambridge in 1969 when
she was a graduate student in history and, yes, while quite young she did
have, even then, an obvious intelligence only partly shielded by a worldly
outlook that manifested itself in a quiet wit with a sharp edge. She was
self-assured the way so many black women from New York City are self-assured
-- a matter of style, a method of self-assertion in an environment where
proactive was a way of life long before it was diminished to a figure of
speech.
We were quite literally friends in the strenuous
effort that all black people at Harvard not totally mesmerized by its
outward prestige and its draconian elitism recognized as less a striving
for promotion or tenure than a struggle to save our souls. It was not
always easy, but we never forgot that our priority was the latter, our
nemesis, the former.
What a training ground it was, one we managed to
escape -- provoked in one way or another by actions or silences so dismissive
of our work and our worth that we simply could not bear to remain. And
now, many years later, but surely not that many, Nell has done such wonderful
work as teacher, as scholar, as administrator, all marked with her signature
committed integrity likely honed out of bitter experiences survived and
with sense of self intact.
I see this tribute to Nell as appropriate whether
or not it is for one birthday or another. I join those who hail this wonderful
model of what we all should want to be.
With great admiration and love,
Derrick Bell
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Patricia Bell-Scott |
Nell,
Turning 60 is something I look forward to, especially
if I can be like you.
Your brilliance seems sharper each year.
Your natural beauty and self-confidence permeate
your every movement.
Your curiosity knows no limit.
And your supportiveness teaches us to catch our own
fish.
Love to you, my scholar-writer-sister-friend, on
your 60th.
pat bell-scott
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Katherine Benesch & Tom Romer |
Happy Birthday, Nell.
I bet you never thought you'd get this far! And,
think of how many more you have to go!
So, have a big celebration-with lots of mojitos!
Enjoy!
All the best from your now-former neighbors.
Katherine Benesch & Tom Romer
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William J. Bennett |
Nell --
My very best to you on your birthday. A celebrated
scholar at 30 when I knew you, now you turn 50 (and I won't believe anything
else!). May there be many years of productivity ahead of you! Happy birthday!
Best,
Bill Bennett
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Sandra Bermann |
Happy Birthday Nell!
Over these many years at Princeton, you have made
a big difference in what we teach, how we teach it and even whom we have
been able to hire! So along with sincere good wishes comes serious gratitude.
I wish for you, our talented and dedicated colleague and friend, a wonderful
celebration and many, many happy returns!
Thanks very much.
Sandra
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Louise Bernikow
(see
photo album) |
Yo! Yo yo yo!
got a pal her name is Nell
wow her mind is like a bell
face and soul are pretty swell
dear dear sister please do tell
i love you
i love you
happy birthday
many happy birthdays
Louise Bernikow
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Hattie Black
(see
photo album) |
Dear Nell,
May the Lord be with you to bless you with much joy
and much happiness. When you look at the years behind you, may you see
only rainbows and feel only blessings.
Nell you have been an inspiration to me. Happy 60th
birthday.
Love,
Hattie
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Bruce Borland |
Nell, Chana Kai Lee let me know that Glenn was planning
a website as part of a birthday celebration for you. I'm grateful to her
for letting me know, and I feel honored to have the opportunity to contribute.
I've really enjoyed knowing you, and I've enjoyed
our correspondence. You've taught me so many things. I feel I've grown
and changed since I made your acquaintance, and I'm living my life differently
because of what I've learned from you.
Thanks to Glenn for coming up with the idea of this
website, and getting the word out. What a wonderful idea! My wife and
I will both be turning sixty next year, and I'll have to try and think
up something equally spectacular. I know you'll have the happiest of birthdays
among friends and family.
Best Wishes,
Bruce Borland
Oxford University Press
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Norman Brooks |
Dear Nell,
Many of us think we can fly. Many of us believe we
can fly. But it is so great to see an eagle who looks like us SOARING.
Thanks for being an inspiring role model for so many.
Norman Brooks
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Scott Brooks |
How do I refer to you? What should I call you? It is
of little importance really.
But I did call out to you. I was looking for help,
for some advice, answers, words of wisdom on this thing. What was college
all about?
I remember your comfort. You spoke with such ease.
I guess I called you Friend. I hung up the phone, feeling less certain
about my chances of entering Princeton (which had been my dream) but much
more certain of choosing the right place for me.
I attended college and graduated in four short years.
I sought you again. Feeling much wiser the second time but still very
young in life. I guess I called you Auntie. You were supportive and gave
me straight information.
I have read in someone's acknowledgements that they
can not possibly list all of the persons that have contributed to their
development and the ultimate creation of their creative work because first
they do not know all of them by name, and next because the list would
be too long. It would be necessary to include all of one's teachers, friends,
family and relatives as well as indirect and direct influences on their
thoughts.
Shortly, after speaking to Auntie Nell I decided
that I wanted to be a professor. It seemed like the perfect career for
me. But how did I come to this? How did I develop an understanding of
what this would require of me?
I know that I have been influenced by this friend
and Auntie that I have never met. Her voice has and continues to grow
inside of me, encouraging and advising me. I have only recently begun
my doctoral program and already my latest advisor has called the name
Nell Painter, as a scholar that has produced work that should serve as
models of research. Now I will call you Teacher.
Thanks for planting seeds that the Lord has grown.
Peace and Blessings on your Birthday.
Scott Brooks
Scott N. Brooks
Ph.D. Candidate
Dept. of Sociology
University of Pennsylvania
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Elsa Barkley Brown |
Nell,
Having been raised by an amazing group of black women,
I grew up believing that 60 was the magical age to be. Knowing you confirms
this long held belief. All the best in your 60th and many more!
Love,
ebb
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Tammy Brown |
Dear Nell:
You knit
stories
and students,
imaginations
into zephyrs
that ruffle commonplaces
and uncover distant truths
sojourner, herstorian--
painting timeless landscapes
conjuring voices
and the guts and gore
of not so distant places
visaging the faceless--
fellow travelers look on
As you can see, I am exercising my post-generals
resolution to revive my poetic side. :-) Such a birthday tribute is fitting
because one of the qualities that I admire most is the CREATIVITY you
bring to your scholarship and teaching. I also appreciate your generosity,
dedication, and energy. One indelible memory from this past semester is
of a trip you took on a Tuesday to guest lecture at a university in Texas,
because I was amazed at how you still kept your Monday and Wednesday office
hours and classes at Princeton! Such commitment is characteristic Painter-style.
You always show up, and rest assured that your students notice.
Not only do I hope to look that good when I'm your age, but I also
hope to have just as much vim and vigor!!!! Happy Birthday!
peace & love,
Tammy L. Brown
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Dorothy Browne |
Greetings from one of the members of the "Tina Turner
Society." Please tell me that you remember this feisty group of women whose
motto was: "We are not getting older--just getting better". Nell, are you
getting older? I can not believe that you will be 60 on August 2nd. Last
week, I had dinner with Dr. John Hope Franklin, a neighbor and a friend.
In fact, John and "Booknotes" are my sources of information regarding your
activities--- publications, speaking at Fisk, etc. John shared with me the
fact that you would be 60 on your next birthday. I shared with him the fact
that your strength and intelligence sustained me when I moved from Harvard
in 1981 to assume an academic position at UNC-CH. Although I have not been
in touch with you and the other members of the Tina Turner Society, I have
followed your successes and triumphs. You, most of all, have been a model
for me and I thank you for "showing the way."
Dorothy C. Browne (Howze)
Durham, North Carolina
Retired from UNC-CH--8/1/02
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Beverlee Bruce
(see
photo album) |
Dear Nell:
Congratulations on all you have accomplished thus
far. I can only imagine the heights you will scale in the future. Although
our time at Harvard, where we met, are some years in the past, it seems
as though it was just yesterday when you and I shared some memorable occasions
in Cambridge: meeting Nieman Fellow Hollie West, driving Chinua Achebe
back to Amherst in a torrential rain after his visit at Lowell House where
you had invited him to speak, the Black Women’s Symposium at Radcliffe
that you signed me up for where I was in your Discussion Group with Lucretia
Brown, Marcia Gillespie and Toni Cade Bambara and where Alice Walker whispered
her "In Our Mother’s Gardens" piece, and to think I had planned to go
to Widener instead. But then, you have always been purposeful and direct,
which is why you are successful. One other memory is the day we went to
the gym exercised and swam several laps. When we came out on what was
a snowy day, we were so vibrant, we felt we could melt the snow and I
think we did. Since Harvard I have kept up with your contributions to
our historical record. I won’t forget the Brownie points I gained when
you came to speak at Howard and the Chairman of the History Department
who had invited you realized that you and I knew each other. Another since
Harvard memory is our touching base at Chinua Achebe’s Seventieth Birthday
and attending his dinner. But most important has been your marshalling
support for our friend Claudia. The Princeton Symposium was quite a tribute
to her and I know that much of it was the result of your effort.
Well Nell, I look forward to keeping up with you
on both a personal level but also in terms of your peerless scholarship
that I so look forward to.
Many Happy Returns of the Day.
Beverlee
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D. Graham Burnett |
Dear Nell:
Very happy birthday!!
From Graham and Christina
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Mary Ellen Butler |
Dear Nell: Those of us who went to high school and college
with you and have followed your magnificent career since then are exceedingly
proud of your accomplishments and contributions to literature and the field
of history. You bring honor to the old home town!
Best wishes for continued happiness, personally and
professionally.
Sincerely,
Mary Ellen Butler
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Mark Byrne |
Dear Nell:
Bless you on your birthday - with more years and what they bring: more experience,
more wisdom, more peace!
You were such an unexpected surprise when you came into our unexpected household
back in Kansas back then. What a strange little group we were and you arrived
with your gifts and your heart! I remember your great common sense, your
patient kindness. Your first mission was to get rid of the furniture - and
then you continued to give direction to the family - Glenn and the children,
me hovering around. How funny to think I was the nanny at the wedding in
Princeton! And your visit to Rome years later. I always found it so easy
to talk with you despite our different visions of life - moreso than many
whom you'd expect to share my vision. I was grateful for that. Calm assurance,
a great smile, a desire for truth. These qualities are not common anymore
but you have them. I am grateful to God that I have known you. That sweater
you knitted me ended up being worn by one of our young nuns in Rome. I said
to her one day, "You might be interested to know the person behind the sweater."
In the world's eyes, we are very different people. In God's eyes, maybe
we are much closer than we realize. And I hope that will all be realized
when all our years in this world and all our birthdays are past.
Love and my blessing.
Fr. Mark Byrne, solt
Precious Blood Church
Buffalo, New York
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Eduardo Cadava |
Dear Nell,
I was delighted to hear about your birthday and to
hear that Glenn was making it possible for your friends and admirers to
send you our warmest wishes on this birthday.
I hope that your summer has been full of pleasure
and relaxation, and I hope that you experience this birthday as another
register of all the beautiful and wondrous things you have accomplished,
done, enjoyed, and given to everyone around you.
I am in Athens right now, so 'chronia polla,' Nell.
I thank you for everything that you are.
I'll return to Princeton in mid-August and let's
plan on having a celebratory lunch soon after we're both back. It would
be nice to see you and to catch up on everything.
Take care,
Eduardo
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Leslie Callahan |
Happy birthday, Nell.
There is so much that I admire about your person
and your work: your generosity, your ingenuity, your hospitality, your
mentoring, your connectedness, your independence, your humor, your honesty,
your integrity, your dogged determination, your flexibility, your hard
work, your ease and grace. I often say that I want to be like you when
I grow up.
Thank you for awakening the historian in me and starting
her on her way.
Leslie D. Callahan
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Hazel Carby |
Dearest Nell, I send my love and deepest admiration
on the occasion of your 60th birthday. Wow, you look so good too! Hugs and
kisses. Hazel
Hazel V. Carby
Department of African American Studies
Yale University
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Clay Carson |
Dear Nell,
How could you be sixty when I still think of you
as one of the younger generation of historians that I belong to? How quickly
the years have passed by. Have we already reached the age when it's difficult
to remember the time we first met? Was it in North Carolina, when you
were working on the Hosea Hudson book? In any case, it seems that our
careers have intersected in so many different and wonderful ways. I've
always admired you and everything you have produced during your stellar
career. If there is any regret about my years at Stanford, it is that
I failed in my attempt to bring you here (Stanford's loss rather than
yours).
We have not had many opportunities to extended discussions
over the years (it's never too late!), but I have vivid memories of those
occasions when we could have extended talks about our mutual interests.
You have influenced me (in good ways) more than you'll ever know and are
a special person who deserves all the accolades you will receive on your
birthday.
Please accept my best wishes and love as you begin
a new period of your life.
Clay Carson
Professor Clayborne Carson
Director, Martin Luther King, Jr., Papers Project
Stanford University
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Nancy Cartwright |
Dear Nell
Much love, hugs and kisses from far away friends...Nancy,
Emily and Sophie Cartwright (and Emily's little girl, Lucy) and Stuart
Hampshire. And many many happy returns.
Nancy
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Barbara Chase-Riboud |
Dear Nell, Happy Birthday and 60 more! By now you will
have received your birthday present I sent to your P.O. Box in Vermont with
all our affection and respect. Looking forward to seeing you soon.
I miss you and love you,
Barbara
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Nancy Clapp-Channing |
Happy 60th, my life long beach buddie!
Many years ago in Chapel Hill you said you weren't
fearful of aging, in fact you looked forward to it.... Well, you've been
down a few more tracks than I..., but this is sent with lots of love and
best wishes that this birthday and the decade that follows offers the
time to "put it all together"! What a rich life you've woven, and how
lucky I am to have been one of the strands all these years, starting at
the "round tables" at Leo's Pizza!
A toast to life and friendship,
Nancita
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Bettye Collier-Thomas |
Dear Nell,
Today you will celebrate another milestone in what
has been a wonderful life filled with numerous achievements and great
success. Your life, career, and persona have served as a model for many
aspiring scholars, particularly women, seeking ways to negotiate the thickets
of the academy and to achieve their personal and professional goals.
We first met during the early 1970s at the annual
meeting of either the OAH or the AHA. However, your impact on me and my
career as a historian began around 1974 or 1975 at the OAH meeting in
Washington, D.C., where I presented a paper on Harvey Johnson and the
Brotherhood of Liberty. I have never forgotten your liberal praise and
enthusiasm for my work on that occasion, and am more than grateful for
the support you have given me throughout the years. Among the many things
that I admire about you, it is your sheer honesty that has meant so much
to me. While you offered me praise, you also gave me advice and suggested
strategies for achieving some of my academic and scholarly goals. It is
because of you and Charles (1990) that I shifted from collecting data
to publishing books. And, earlier this year when I was very depressed
over my mother's death, you sent me a note and said "now you are an orphan."
I laughed and was energized by the comment. Of course, your wit and humor
equal your scholarship.
I also have pleasant memories of your visits to Washington
and the time you spent with us at Tewkesbury Place. On one occasion you
were locked out and instead of getting upset you simply stretched out
on the front porch and napped until we arrived home. I have always admired
your practicality and patience.
You are not getting older, but better! Last September
at the ABWH luncheon you spoke about your plans for life after the academy.
On that occasion you provided salient advice to women scholars, young
and old, about how to succeed in the academy without being stressed out.
And, you also talked about how to move forward with grace and continue
to enjoy life in retirement. You will never fully know the impact of your
speech on that occasion. However, I can assure you it was great.
Happy 60th birthday Nell! Best wishes to you and
Glenn.
Sincerely,
Bettye Collier-Thomas
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Lupe Copendah |
Dear Nell,
You are approaching a major event in your life, and
as you do, I wish you the very best. May your 60th birthday be filled
with unlimited joy, love, peace of mind prosperity, and ecstasy. I am
blessed to know you. Many blessings to you, and happy 60th birthday. Love
and blessings.
Lupe Copendah
First Church Family
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Nancy Cott |
Dear Nell -- you got so much done in only 60 years,
and while looking so glamourous too! my very warmest wishes on this round
birthday. May you reach a century! And relish the wisdom thereby gained
. . . Enjoy, enjoy!
As always,
Nancy Cott
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Anastasia Curwood |
Nell, it's such a pleasure to be offering you a tribute
for your 60th birthday. I can't express how much I respect your scholarship,
mentoring, and zest for life. I have a deep appreciation for your unfailing
encouragement and belief in my abilities as a historian. You have been there
for me without fail from my first days at Princeton, generously giving advice,
reassurance, Thanksgiving dinners, and, when necessary, firm motivational
prodding! As a world citizen, I am grateful for the incredibly creative
thinking that you do about the present and the past, and I am constantly
impressed by your openness to new ways of understanding. Your personal and
intellectual vitality will always be a model for the kind of person I want
to be.
We are all very lucky to have you. Congratulations
on your first sixty years, and my very best wishes for the next.
Love,
Anastasia Curwood
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Jane Dailey |
Dearest Nell,
If you are sixty all I can say is, bring it on!
IÕve been dilatory in writing to you, enjoying reading
what others have written. This combination birthday greeting-testimonial
is a tricky genre. Many of your students have written of the gifts you
have given us: your knowledge, your wit, your genuine, hard-earned wisdom.
I wonder if you have any real appreciation of your effect on our lives.
(Particularly during your vegan periodÉ.) Not that you haven't learned
from us as well. I know, for instance, that after me you asked all your
graduate students, "Are you using birth control?"
I would like to wish you (and David joins in as well)
a very, very happy birthday. I wish you, my teacher Nell Irvin Painter,
many long years with us. You should keep on knitting, and enjoy art school,
but not deprive us entirely of your thoughts in the form of words.
With tremendous affection and admiration,
Jane
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John Daves |
Happy Birthday Professor Painter! I was so pleased to
hear from Glenn and to have a small part in the birthday celebration and
the birth of your website. Your career was an inspiration before I met you
and you became much more of one after I started coming to the seminars.
Coming to the seminars at Princeton not only became
a pleasurable learning experience for me, but they also gave me the opportunity
to get to know you. Your kindness and support were crucial in my development.
I will never forget the opportunity to be on a panel discussion with you
on Thomas Jefferson's Affair with Sally Hemings. After the panel discussion,
I began to feel that I could become a scholar. If you had that much belief
in my capabilities, I knew that I could find the confidence in myself.
Consequently, I would talk about you and the panel discussion with my
father. Since I was in high school, he has left articles on my bed from
the New York Times, The Chronicle of Higher Education, The New Yorker
about what is happening in academia. He has always been impressed with
your scholarship. As you know, my father attends the seminars and we often
discuss the role you played in my intellectual growth. We cannot thank
you enough.
I want to give you a quick update. Professor Peterson
is my dissertation advisor. I am also working with Professor Caughey on
a Life History project. I am beginning to do research and to form a narrative
about growing up in a black family of teachers and scholars that begins
before the Civil War. Along with my research, The American Studies Department
has provided me with an opportunity to create my own Core Courses.
I would love to hear about your courses. I understand
that you are currently teaching and doing research on Whiteness. Again,
Happy Birthday Professor Painter! I miss being able to come to Princeton
and talk to you. I hope to hear from you soon. Although I may not have
said this enough, you have meant a great deal to me and to my father.
Sincerely,
John Daves
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Natalie Davis |
Hail to you, Nell, on this 60th birthday, part of a
brilliant life of beauty and achievement. We think of you going strong,
vibrant and insightful, bringing new understanding to the past and good
values, warmth, and hope for the present and the future.
Love from Natalie Davis, enthusiastically
seconded by Chandler Davis
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Thadious Davis
(see
photo album) |
My Dear Nell,
There are turning points in life: the years, the
events, the people, the places, even the emotions. Long-lived friendship
comes with images, some grainy, some surreal, but all caught in the curve
of the heart. Scrolling back over nearly 30 years, I remember you, Nell,
in the 1970s--smart, savvy, spirited, sensitive-- like the strong women
who survive hurricane season to build anew. I see you now in 2002--smart,
savvy, spirited, sensitive--like the heroines of our yesterdays and tomorrows.
And I am amazed at how much you have remained you, your very own self,
even as you have transformed yourself--growing, thickening, deepening
(OK, graying too!). I am still surprised by your optimism and determination
to untangle the wilds and tame the rivers-- or the snakes. In turning
60, you are rounding the curve of transformation. I wish you every joy
and great serenity in a turning point that opens out to new pleasures
and all possibilities.
With love and admiration on your special day,
Thad
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Jane De Hart |
Dear Nell,
When I first met you when you were at Penn, the possibility of either of
us turning sixty seemed as remote as an afterlife. But it has happened.
The intervening years have been immeasurably enriched for me by your friendship,
sharing those years as colleagues at UNC, and a longer relationship as members
of the UNC Press Gender and Culture Series. Enjoy the big 60 and remember
Emily Dickinson's "We turn not older with years, but newer with everyday."
Happy Birthday, my dear. And may there be many more!
Cheers,
Jane
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Jennifer Delton |
For the past six decades Nell has served this planet
in her capacity as herself and we are all better off for it. A person who
reminds us how the lives of ordinary people have shaped the world we live
in, we should not be surprised at the enormous impact her own life has had
on others. I have always felt unduly fortunate in having found Nell as a
mentor and teacher, or as it seemed then having Nell find me. When I first
met Nell I was overawed by her beauty, her style, her vast knowledge of
things weighty and arcane, and the authority and clarity with which she
spoke. Despite this daunting perfection, she turned out to be one of the
warmest, most loyal, most generous and giving people I had ever met. She
had this way of making it seem as though your work mattered, as though what
you had to say might somehow change everything - if only you could first
address a series of questions and problems she laid out before you. Which
is to say she demanded the most of you. I have counted on her skepticism
and her insistence that I be clear about whom it is I am speaking, with
the consequence that every sentence I write I hear her voice behind me,
softly, "ALL women, Jennifer?" As her student, however, I was denied one
opportunity: the opportunity to join my peers in their grievances as graduate
students. Many a long night I listened to grousing, complaints, long sessions
of the travails of advising relationships unfulfilled. But I could never
join in. I was an outlier. I had no complaints. My adviser read my chapters
promptly. My adviser provided ample and useful criticism. My adviser promoted
my interests. My adviser cared. But the real point here is not so much how
my life is better for having met Nell, but that she showed me how people
do good in the world, how they can be friends and mentors, so that I would
in turn try to live up to that model of duty, truth-seeking, and public-mindedness
that she so beautifully embodies. So cheers, Nell. Happy Sixtieth, from
one of your fiercely devoted students, Jennifer.
Jennifer Delton
Skidmore College
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Jeanette & René Demeestere |
To my Dear Friend Nell, Sister of Time & Place & People
in Our Lives:
Berkeley
Bordeaux
Paris
Marthas
Vineyard
Berlin
"My husband teaches at a business school
but he's really a mathematician!"
Sojourner Truth
Else Lasker-Schüler
ART
May our lives keep on joining and our friendship
keep on growing.
On t'embrasse très fort, Joyeux Anniversaire
Nell,
Jeanette & René Demeestere
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Art & Elizabeth Dempster |
Dear Nell:
Birthday greetings. Your 7th decade and beyond is
shaping up as full of new, happy, and productive things, and we wish you
all the best in your endeavors. We look forward to getting together with
you and Glenn here or in NJ.
Sincerely,
Art & Elizabeth Dempster
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Lita Carmen DeSeville |
To Professor Nell, The "Princeton U Birthday Belle".
I'm sending a barrel of good wishes your way, to
help celebrate your special day, in grand and glorious style, the occasion
of (reaching) your 60th Birthday mile! So sip a glass of champagne or
two and I will raise my glass in toast to you, Professor Nell, The "Birthday
Belle" of Princeton U.
Love and Hugs,
Lita Carmen DeSeville,
The First Church Family,
Oakland, California.
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Shalanda Dexter
(see
photo album) |
Kahlil Gibran writes in his book The Prophet that, "You
give but little when you give of possessions. It is when you give of yourself
that you truly give. There are those who have little and give it all. These
are the believers in life and the bounty of life, their coffer is never
empty. Through the hands of such as these God speaks, and from behind their
eyes He smiles upon the earth." As I join in the celebration of your 60th
birthday, I wanted to thank you for your giving spirit. God has not only
given you the gift of intelligence but more importantly a compassionate
and loving heart. It has almost been a decade since I met you. You cared
enough to reach out to a shy and insecure students and mentor her to become
a scholar like yourself. Thank you so much for giving more than what was
required and caring more than was expected. Your spirit and presence lives
in my work and my relationship with my own students. May God's blessings
rest upon your life and know that I love you dearly."
Shalanda Dexter
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Gloria Dickinson
(see
photo album) |
Dear Nell,
Wishing you a Sensational and Significant Sixtieth!
We all continue to learn, and grow and you shower us with your limitless
gifts of scholarship and "sister-frienship."
All the best from your "fellow-Leo"
Gloria
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Hasia Diner |
Nell:
First a hearty happy birthday! Milestones are wonderful
and appropriate moments to not only take stock of ourselves, but allow
the world to praise us. And praise is what you deserve. Your elegance,
your articulateness, your deep scholarship and broad humanity put you
in a category unto yourself. Your writings --EXODUSTERS and STANDING AT
ARMAGEDDON, the ones I know best-- are exemplars of close research and
broad vision, of care with detail and a wide lens on the meanings we can
derive from the past. Your writing and your speaking come together in
a "package" of real class. You are a tough act to follow, but you set
a standard that we all have to measure ourselves against.
Bravo for your contribution, and as we say in Hebrew:
"ad meah v'esrim" --until 120!
My best for this year and for many to come:
Hasia
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Nancy DiTomaso |
Dear Nell,
Happy 60th Birthday! I have enjoyed the opportunity to get to know you,
to learn of the wonderful work you are doing, and to share, however briefly,
some of my ideas and concerns as well. In pursuit of a path I can no longer
recall for my book project, I picked up Standing at Armageddon (great title!)
and was exceptionally impressed with the lucid and beautiful writing, in
addition to the insight and scholarship of the book. I have since enjoyed
the occasional "family letter" or "travelogue," with the same clear and
clever text. I have happily observed your joy in the evolution of your work
and your relationship with your family. And, I have appreciated the invitations
to stop by or join a party when our calendars merged. Although the work
I am doing is not historical, as such, there are obviously important overlaps
in themes and frameworks in the work I have been trying to do and what you
have done and expect to do. I have felt enriched by learning of your work,
and I have been delighted to learn as well of your prominence, influence,
and stature in the field. The more women; the more black women; and the
more responsible, caring, and sensible women at the top, the better it will
be for all of us. Hope you have at least 60 more years!
With warm regards,
Nancy DiTomaso
Rutgers Business School
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Ellen DuBois |
Dear Nell: Your sixtieth birthday is more than your
sixtieth birthday; it is a milestone for all of us. I have gotten so much
out of the ideas and mentoring and dilemmas we have shared. You have my
unqualified respect and friendship, Dear Nell. Here's to many future mutual
enrichments and to your own well-deserved enjoyment of your innumerable
contributions.
Love,
Ellen DuBois
Los Angeles, CA
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Ann duCille |
Dear Nell,
Happy Birthday, you brilliant, goregous gal! Sixty
never looked so good.
Love and best wishes,
Ann duCille
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Heddye Ducree |
Happy Birthday, Nell
May your brillance continue to shine and enrich the
minds and lives of those who are touched by your genius and spirit! Your
quiet dignity and sensitivity are qualities that I have admired over the
years. I recall with a smile and a grateful heart your thoughtfulness
and concern for my health and well-being several years ago. Simply an
example of your caring nature in the midst of all you have to do! You
have given of yourself in other significant ways to so many of us at Princeton...always
inspiring, cautioning, educating, and motivating us to higher heights.
Thank you, my friend.
Wishing you good health, continued success, inner
peace and love,
Heddye Ducree
Director, Carl A. Fields Center for Equality and Cultural Understanding
Princeton University
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Harry Dunbar |
As an admirer of the scholarship of Nell Irvin Painter,
I count it a great privilege as well as a pleasure to join in this 60th
birthday tribute to her. As a student of Prof. Painter's work, I have sought
to understand how she arrived at the perspective she holds. It is clear
to me that family was the venue that was most influential and that she must
have been raised in one of those happy families that Tolstoy characterized
as "all alike," which experience allowed her to develop the keen understanding
evident in her work and the supportive sensibility demonstrated by her extensive
mentoring. I am pleased to add my voice to others from the scholarly community
in extending "Best wishes for many happy returns!" to Professor Painter.
I also join in extending best wishes to Dona and
Frank Painter on their 65th wedding anniversary celebrated earlier this
year and congratulate them on the achievements of their daughter.
Harry B. Dunbar
Dunbar On Black Books
<www.queenhyte.com/dobb.html>
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Troy Duster |
Dear Nell,
Warmest best wishes and Happy Birthday greetings.
Happily, for someone with your talents and skills,
and for the "life of the mind" -- it does get even better!!
a big hug,
Troy Duster
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Marcia & Michael Dyson |
Dear Nell:
We don't want to be impolite, but forgive us if we
briefly wallow in disbelief at the news that you are about to celebrate
your sixtieth birthday! Although that's a milestone of which you should
be darned proud, we're just amazed that you're a day over forty-five.
You look marvelous! Happy Birthday!
Nell, you probably don't realize just how influential
you have been in our lives. You have set a standard of scholarly achievement
that has been a beacon to the generations that have come after you. We
have often turned to your work to learn about periods and personalities
that have been overlooked, undervalued or misinterpreted. We marvel at
the clarity and brilliance of your mind, the eloquence of your prose,
and the depth of your research. Your words are bathed in wise and critical
judgment. Your insights leap off the page and change how we view the past
we thought we new and beckon us to consider a past we never knew existed.
If your scholarship is remarkable, your commitment
to nurturing younger scholars is equally extraordinary. In an academy
rife with pettiness and backbiting, you have managed to remain steady
in your praise and support of the worthy novice. Although we have never
enjoyed the opportunity to literally sit at your feet, we have felt the
reach of your interest and basked in the good reports you have sent our
way. We have encountered so many younger scholars who say the same. They
constantly remark on your incredible loyalty, your high standards, your
insistence that they discover their best, and your ongoing support once
they have begun their careers.
What is winning about you is that in a profession
dominated by old guys and even older ideas about howto behave, you have
truly outdone Sinatra and have done it your way. Your irreverence is splendid,
your fearlessness simply edifying. I (Mike) can remember the first time
I met you, in a lecture hall at Princeton as a second-year graduate student
during a lecture given by a potential colleague as the school was recruiting
you. You sat there knitting, and I watched your attention to detail and
your care for style that also mark your books. And when the lecturer was
done, you posed the most penetrating and provocative question, peeking
over your glasses as you pressed your point. It was riveting, not only
showing that you were a doyenne of multi-tasking before it gained vogue,
but it gave all of us grad students the courage to be independent and
contrary if need be. I suppose I can blame you, then, for my King book,
if not for its contents, then surely for its spirit!
Nell, we are pleased to announce that you have shown
us some skills that would make Ms. Cleo envious! I (Marcia) remember that
you bet me twenty dollars that I wouldn't be able to remain in Chapel
Hill for long. Well, after Providence, Rhode Island, I wasn't convinced
you could possibly be right. I was determined to prove that my money was
safe, but your crystal ball finally prevailed, although I never paid you.
I'll have to make good on our bet and take you to dinner now that we're
within shouting distance.
In the end, it is just how you exist in the world
that warms our hearts and causes us to praise God that she brought you
to us, to the world, to give us an idea of how to live your life with
style and substance. You are what we dream to be when we dare think we
can do half of what you have done with as much fortitude and courage.
We love you, Nell, and we wish you every good thing on your birthday,
and sixty more years to sing your song!
Love,
Marcia & Michael Dyson
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Mary Enright & Dave Carroll |
Nell,
So another birthday is upon you! You have a lot to
celebrate - a life full of gifts - beauty, intelligence, accomplishments,
and a loving husband! (Glenn didn't make me say that.)
We'll miss you and Glenn when you leave Princeton
but hope we'll see you in your new home.
Happy Birthday
Mary Enright
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Crystal Feimster
(see
photo album) |
My Dearest Nell,
Happy 60th Birthday!!!
I hope that after six decades I will have accomplished
at least half as much as you have and look so Good! You are truely one
amazing woman. Your wisdom, kindness, support, love, and encouragment
have sustained me for almost a decade. I can't begin to tell you how you
have and continue to impact my life. We both know that I'm a historian
because of you. You made survival at Princeton possible and completion
of the dissertation a reality. I will not recount the horrors of that
first year at Princeton, but I will say you were the only reason I didn't
drop out. I can't thank you enough.
I hope this next decades brings you more than you've
ever imagined and all the happiness you deserve.
Celebrate! Celebrate! Celebrate!
All My Love,
Crystal
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Neil Foley |
Dear Nell,
I had to go to Berlin for a year to finally meet
you and have you all to myself for some memorable lunches. Thank you for
being the inspiration you have been, and continue to be, to generations
of scholars. Ich gratuliere Dir zum Geburtstag und wuensche Dir alles
Gute.
Neil Foley
University of Texas
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Judith Jackson Fossett |
Dearest Nell,
Clayton, Alden and I send you warmest salutations
from Southern California! We send a virtual birthday gift of gratitude
for your presence in our lives.
Thank you for being my teacher. Thank you for providing
a peerless model of scholarly integrity and productivity. Thank you for
offering wise counsel. Thank you for showcasing the talents of others.
Thank you for welcoming young scholars into your circle of intellectual
peers that reaches far beyond the Princeton Borough limits. Thank you
for welcoming my family into the wondrous world of yours, especially into
the orbit of Frank and Dona.
Six years ago we spent an afternoon together in Beverly
Hills (during your book tour for the Truth biography) when I was still
a green Angeleno, having only been in Los Angeles for two months. I was
earning a paycheck; I was finally able to take you to lunch! I thought
of that afternoon as a lovely bookend to my graduate days as I began my
stint as assistant professor. Little did I know that that meeting was
merely one of many in the last six years; that it was a beginning to a
new and richer stage in our relationship. Please always know what a difference
you have made in my academic life. It is the gift you keep on giving to
all those around you, and one for which I am truly grateful.
Have the happiest of birthdays! And best wishes to
Glenn and the rest of your family.
With love and warmest wishes,
Judith Jackson Fossett
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Jim & Lillian Fox |
Happy Birthday Nell,
Congratulations on reaching this milestone in your
life. You have achieved much in your years and we are sure that you have
much more to add to your list of accomplishments. We have always enjoyed
the times you and Glenn have spent at our house.
We are happy for you and wish you many, many more
Happy Birthdays.
Remember, the hot tub is always ready for you.
Jim & Lillian Fox
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John Hope Franklin |
Dear Nell,
Let's see, can you recall the first time we met? Was it at the University
of Pennsylvania? I think so. In any case, we have met many, many times since,
and each meeting has been a happy and rewarding experience. Each meeting
has deepened my admiration for who you are and what you do. I believe that
you and I view history in similar ways; to illuminate and interpret the
past in order to "map" what we think the future should be. At least that
is what I glean from your work, and that is what I try to do with mine.
This note is to wish you the happiest birthday you have ever had and to
hope that each succeeding one will surpass its predecessor. You are starting
on a high note--touring the Gaspe Peninsula. Do not come down from that
high anytime soon. Much love, and best wishes to you and Glenn.
Sincerely,
John Hope Franklin
June 3, 2002
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Julia Furlow |
What a person, what a mentor, what a scholar! It gives
me joy just to know you! From skinny legs to preteen blushing, to Sunday
School discussions, you have become the epitome of excellence in history,
sociology, plus loyalty to those back home who stick out our proud chests
in pride and glory. Thank you! I just can't say enough good things about
you. You've transcended them all. Stay close to God! We all love you.
Julia Furlow of Downs Church
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Kevin Gaines |
Happy 60th birthday, Nell!
As a scholar and mentor, you have set a standard
for excellence that places you in the most rarefied and select company.
I will always be grateful for your incisive and extremely helpful criticism
as I was finishing my book. I know that I am just one of the many who
have benefited from your invaluable advice and assistance. I was most
fortunate to have you as a mentor and colleague at the start of my career.
Back then, you and Glenn brought a great deal of warmth and fun to African
American studies in a refreshingly un-Princetonlike manner. Your innovative
study Exodusters not only revolutionized our understanding of African
American political behavior, but has also provided a model for critical
analyses of black leadership. Your biography of Sojourner Truth (a return
to the enigmatic figure who made a brief appearance in Exodusters) is
a meticulous and elegant account of Truth's life and legacy. In addition,
your _Truth_ brilliantly illuminates the vexed intersection between African
American and womenUs histories and the complex relationship between social
activism, memory, authenticity, and historical writing. Your scholarship
has advanced and enriched the field of Black studies, particularly through
its rigorous attention to gender issues. Your contributions to the historical
profession, to the Black studies intellectual tradition, and to the good
fight, are a fitting tribute to your own mentors, and such forerunners
as W.E.B. DuBois, Paul Robeson, Lorraine Hansberry, E. Franklin Frazier,
and John Hope Franklin. After all is said and done, it is your distinguished
record as teacher, scholar, public intellectual and advisor for so much
pathbreaking scholarship that will inspire the admiration and awe of future
generations.
Kevin
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Skip Gates |
Dear Nell:
My admiration for your mastery of the art and science
of historiography is matched only by the depth of my respect for your
integrity, and your undaunted spirit. I wish you good health, the greatest
happiness, and a long and productive life of the mind.
Happy Birthday!
Skip Gates
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Glenda Gilmore
(see
photo album) |
Dear Nell, Happy Birthday! I remember the two lobsters
that I ate on your 50th, and the great time we had. Hope this day is as
happy.
Love,
Glenda Gilmore
Yale University
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Paula Giddings |
I've been told this is the site to wish Nell a VERY
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Hope you're doing great Nell. I'm now at Smith and enjoying
it.
Take care,
Paula
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Eagle Glassheim |
Dear Nell,
It has been a pleasure to have in you a colleague
who suggests what Princeton can be at its best: challenging, willing to
try new things, critical. I wish you and the values you embody a long
and happy reign in the years to come.
Eagle Glassheim
Princeton
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William Gleason |
Dear Nell -- What a grand day! Happy 60th! We're so
very lucky to have you as a colleague -- best wishes for a wonderful celebration!
All best,
Bill Gleason
Department of English
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Annette Gordan-Reed |
Dear Nell,
I wish you much joy on your 60th (!?) birthday. You
are an inspiration to me, and I know to countless others. I have enjoyed
the too few occasions we've been together -- which tend to revolve around
discussions of Thomas Jefferson. You will probably remember the very interesting
evening we spent with Barbara Chase-Riboud.
I look forward to your future work, participating
in discussions with you (on TJ related matters and not) and contacting
you for wise counsel.
Health and happiness to you for years to come!
Best,
Annette
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Kali Nicole Gross |
Dear Nell,
You are an inspiring black woman, historian, and
scholar. Your work powerfully influences my scholarship, as it possesses
a precise analysis of labor, race, gender, sexuality, and oppression in
African-American Studies. Bold and transformative, your research unflinchingly
explores the murky depths of liberty, bigotry, and historical memory.
But perhaps more impressive than this, is your commitment to mentor young
scholars- those within your institution and those, like me, who seek you
out because of your contributions to the field and the academy. Although
many established scholars claim the practice, few ever truly guide graduate
students and young scholars through the landmines embedded in higher education.
You speak with wisdom and candor always, and it is this characteristic
that I appreciate most of all. Whatever your verdict, one can be sure
that it will be frank, clear, and trustworthy. This type of integrity
requires a level of courage that is rare. Thanks for being all of these
things and for taking the time to help me.
Happy Birthday Sisterfire!
Warmly,
Kali
PS - Tell Ms. Dona that I hope I look that good now!
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Ramón Gutiérrez |
Nell at 60. What a wonderful event that must be. Wish
I could be there in person to celebrate, to make a wish for 60 more, and
to glory in your life and accomplishment.
Kisses, warm wishes,
Ramón Gutiérrez
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Adam Gussow |
Dear Nell--
Not merely to have survived, but to have prevailed:
fearless and original thinker, inspired and inspiring teacher, prime mover
of African American Studies at Princeton, AND a fan of country music!
What a joyous occasion this birthday is! You are the reference standard
for an intellectual engagement grounded in uncommon sense. Thanks for
the wonderful example you've set, the enlivening lectures you've graced
us with, and the irksome, needed questions with which you've repeatedly
challenged us. Many blessings on this birthday and the many to follow.
in friendship and fellowship,
Adam Gussow
Assistant Professor
English & Southern Studies
The University of Mississippi
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Debra Newman Ham |
Thank you Nell for being a gracious, productive and
exacting scholar, a mentor, and a friend. Your leadership of Black women
historians as well as Black women's history itself has revolutionized the
field. Since the Association of Black Women Historians was in its infancy,
you gave of your time and your funds to keep it going.
You have taken time to nurture many students, including
myself. You encouraged me when I was at Boston University in the 1970s.
You have read two of my voluminous manuscripts making copious comments
and suggestions and have not flailed me because those manuscripts are
not yet in print. I pray that they will soon be sitting on a publisher's
desk.
I salute your commitment to excellence. I am grateful
for the blows you took for us because you were in the vanguard. I sincerely
hope that you will continue to be relentless in your quest for truth.
God bless you,
Debra Newman Ham
Professor of History
Morgan State University
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Evelynn Hammonds |
Dear Nell,
As a young scholar your work was so important to helping me believe that
I could be a historian. In the years since we met you have continued to
be for me a shining example of the best kind of scholar -- one who pushes
the boundaries of the scholarship while nurturing students to do their very
best work. It has been a real joy to be your colleague and to watch you
soar!! Have a wonderful, wonderful birthday!!
Evelynn Hammonds
Assoc. Prof. of the History of Science
Massachusetts Institute of Technology
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Camilla Hardmeyer |
Glenn: PLEASE INCLUDE MY WARMEST BIRTHDAY WISHES TO
NELL ON THE EVENT OF HER 60TH BIRTHDAY. SHE IS A GREAT INSPIRATION TO ME.
MUCH LOVE TO NELL AND TO YOU.
CAMILLA
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Sharon Harley |
Dear Nell,
I join a host of other scholars to honor you on your
60th birthday and love you for being a giant of a scholar, and even more
wonderful sister friend.
Love,
Sharon Harley
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Lucy & Gil Harman |
Dearest Nell,
Happy 60th Birthday!!! We have loved having you as
a neighbor and friend and talking about everything from knitting to Lacan.
Best wishes for the next 60 years!
Love,
Lucy & Gil Harman
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Dirk Hartog |
Having Nell Painter as a colleague and a friend has
been one of the great pleasures of my time at Princeton. Amid an excess
of Princetonian civility, Nell is there to remind us that there are things
worth fighting about. And she models an honest, engaged, self-revealing
intellectual life. It's not always fun to be on the wrong end of Nell's
anger, but it is always "educational," a learning experience as we used
to say. And the writing and the scholarship is always "essential": bracing,
challenging, brimming with the "next new thing," and interesting.
Happy birthday, Nell. And here's to many many more.
I hope the move to Newark ends up keeping you happy at Princeton (There's
a New Jersey paradox for you.), perhaps even giving us more time together.
Dirk
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Aleta Hayes |
Nell Painter- Your name evokes a constellation of thoughts
about our friendship and your mentorship.
When you first asked me to collaborate as a co-lecturer
in AAS 201-Introduction to African American Cultural Practices, I had
little idea of how that opportunity would impact my life, nor that it
would lead me to find a special niche at Princeton University as an artist
AND a scholar. Later this experience and your guidance led me to develop
my own courses combining African American expressive culture, performance
theory, history, and composition lab for the program. You acknowledged
me as a peer, a challenge which I was obliged to meet, but I was also
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