Sixtieth Birthday Tribute
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Eleanor Alexander

All the best to one of the best!
Eleanor

PS. I still remember the birthday celebration at your summer home during the '90s.

Eleanor Alexander
Assistant Professor
History, Technology, and Society
Georgia Institute of Technology, Atlanta, GA


Ernest Allen Jr.

Many happy returns on your 60th, Nell. May you continue serving as an inspiration to progressive scholars everywhere!

Ernest Allen Jr.
Professor of Afro-American Studies
University of Massachusetts at Amherst

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Harriet Alonso

Happy Birthday Nell! You have been a wonderful role model for me while I've struggled with writing the story of the Garrison children. Thank you so very much for your example.

A big hug on the big day,
harriet (alonso)

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Herbert Aptheker

Dear Glenn Shafer

So Nell is 60--soon she will be grown up!

I remember Nell's friendship. In the old McCarthyite days, it took some fortitude to greet this terrible Radical. Almost all turned away. But Nell was as sweet as usual and warmly greeted me.

My best to her. And how lucky you are to be able to sign yourself "Nell's husband".

Cordially
Herbert Aptheker

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Ed Ayers

Dear Nell,

Congratulations on your birthday! You have long led and inspired entire fields of history and I know you will continue to do so for many years to come. I do ask, however, that you save some graduate students for the rest of us. Have a wonderful celebration!

With warm regards,
Ed

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Houston & Charlotte Baker

Dear Nell,

Happy, Happy 6oth birthday from your colleagues of years past!! Have a wonderful day!

Best wishes,
Houston and Charlotte

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Suzanne Baldwin

Nell - Have a delightful birthday! If your parents are any indication of what lies in store for you in life, you are truly blessed! I've met you and Glenn only on the occasion of celebrating the milestones of Frank and Dona over the years. I've been impressed by your graciousness, your wisdom, your sense of humor, and the deep sense of love and appreciation that is evident as you interact with your mother and father. Your tears of joy and reverence as you introduced various speakers at the 65th Anniversary party were truly beautiful.

Frank and Dona often speak of how proud they are of you, of how much joy you bring to their lives, and what a blessing it is - particularly for Dona - to share in the experience of writing and publishing.

Enjoy this celebration of your life. Thank you for the gift you are to the world!

Peace and blessings,
Suzanne Baldwin
(The First Church Family)

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Priscilla Barnum & Ted Draper

Six T's for sixty:
   Time for writing,
   Time for painting,
   Time for reflection
   Time for new adventures,
   Time for friendship,
   And Time for tea with us (at Echo Lake)--

Ted and Priscilla

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Emily Belcher

Happy Birthday, Miss Nell.
May you have a celebration worthy of your distinctive personality, commanding intellect, elegance, grace, and witty charm to complete this illustrious occasion.

With warmest best wishes for continued health and rich blessings,
Emily Belcher

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Derrick Bell
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You must be kidding. Nell simply can't be approaching her 60th birthday. Yes, I met her when I came to Cambridge in 1969 when she was a graduate student in history and, yes, while quite young she did have, even then, an obvious intelligence only partly shielded by a worldly outlook that manifested itself in a quiet wit with a sharp edge. She was self-assured the way so many black women from New York City are self-assured -- a matter of style, a method of self-assertion in an environment where proactive was a way of life long before it was diminished to a figure of speech.

We were quite literally friends in the strenuous effort that all black people at Harvard not totally mesmerized by its outward prestige and its draconian elitism recognized as less a striving for promotion or tenure than a struggle to save our souls. It was not always easy, but we never forgot that our priority was the latter, our nemesis, the former.

What a training ground it was, one we managed to escape -- provoked in one way or another by actions or silences so dismissive of our work and our worth that we simply could not bear to remain. And now, many years later, but surely not that many, Nell has done such wonderful work as teacher, as scholar, as administrator, all marked with her signature committed integrity likely honed out of bitter experiences survived and with sense of self intact.

I see this tribute to Nell as appropriate whether or not it is for one birthday or another. I join those who hail this wonderful model of what we all should want to be.

With great admiration and love,
Derrick Bell

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Patricia Bell-Scott

Nell,

Turning 60 is something I look forward to, especially if I can be like you.

Your brilliance seems sharper each year.

Your natural beauty and self-confidence permeate your every movement.

Your curiosity knows no limit.

And your supportiveness teaches us to catch our own fish.

Love to you, my scholar-writer-sister-friend, on your 60th.
pat bell-scott

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Katherine Benesch & Tom Romer

Happy Birthday, Nell.

I bet you never thought you'd get this far! And, think of how many more you have to go!

So, have a big celebration-with lots of mojitos! Enjoy!

All the best from your now-former neighbors.
Katherine Benesch & Tom Romer

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William J. Bennett

Nell --

My very best to you on your birthday. A celebrated scholar at 30 when I knew you, now you turn 50 (and I won't believe anything else!). May there be many years of productivity ahead of you! Happy birthday!

Best,
Bill Bennett

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Sandra Bermann

Happy Birthday Nell!

Over these many years at Princeton, you have made a big difference in what we teach, how we teach it and even whom we have been able to hire! So along with sincere good wishes comes serious gratitude. I wish for you, our talented and dedicated colleague and friend, a wonderful celebration and many, many happy returns!

Thanks very much.
Sandra

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Louise Bernikow
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Yo! Yo yo yo!
got a pal her name is Nell
wow her mind is like a bell
face and soul are pretty swell
dear dear sister please do tell
i love you
i love you
happy birthday
many happy birthdays

Louise Bernikow

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Hattie Black
  (see photo album)

Dear Nell,

May the Lord be with you to bless you with much joy and much happiness. When you look at the years behind you, may you see only rainbows and feel only blessings.

Nell you have been an inspiration to me. Happy 60th birthday.

Love,
Hattie

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Bruce Borland

Nell, Chana Kai Lee let me know that Glenn was planning a website as part of a birthday celebration for you. I'm grateful to her for letting me know, and I feel honored to have the opportunity to contribute.

I've really enjoyed knowing you, and I've enjoyed our correspondence. You've taught me so many things. I feel I've grown and changed since I made your acquaintance, and I'm living my life differently because of what I've learned from you.

Thanks to Glenn for coming up with the idea of this website, and getting the word out. What a wonderful idea! My wife and I will both be turning sixty next year, and I'll have to try and think up something equally spectacular. I know you'll have the happiest of birthdays among friends and family.

Best Wishes,
Bruce Borland
Oxford University Press

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Norman Brooks

Dear Nell,

Many of us think we can fly. Many of us believe we can fly. But it is so great to see an eagle who looks like us SOARING. Thanks for being an inspiring role model for so many.

Norman Brooks

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Scott Brooks

How do I refer to you? What should I call you? It is of little importance really.

But I did call out to you. I was looking for help, for some advice, answers, words of wisdom on this thing. What was college all about?

I remember your comfort. You spoke with such ease. I guess I called you Friend. I hung up the phone, feeling less certain about my chances of entering Princeton (which had been my dream) but much more certain of choosing the right place for me.

I attended college and graduated in four short years. I sought you again. Feeling much wiser the second time but still very young in life. I guess I called you Auntie. You were supportive and gave me straight information.

I have read in someone's acknowledgements that they can not possibly list all of the persons that have contributed to their development and the ultimate creation of their creative work because first they do not know all of them by name, and next because the list would be too long. It would be necessary to include all of one's teachers, friends, family and relatives as well as indirect and direct influences on their thoughts.

Shortly, after speaking to Auntie Nell I decided that I wanted to be a professor. It seemed like the perfect career for me. But how did I come to this? How did I develop an understanding of what this would require of me?

I know that I have been influenced by this friend and Auntie that I have never met. Her voice has and continues to grow inside of me, encouraging and advising me. I have only recently begun my doctoral program and already my latest advisor has called the name Nell Painter, as a scholar that has produced work that should serve as models of research. Now I will call you Teacher.

Thanks for planting seeds that the Lord has grown.

Peace and Blessings on your Birthday.
Scott Brooks
Scott N. Brooks
Ph.D. Candidate
Dept. of Sociology
University of Pennsylvania

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Elsa Barkley Brown

Nell,

Having been raised by an amazing group of black women, I grew up believing that 60 was the magical age to be. Knowing you confirms this long held belief. All the best in your 60th and many more!

Love,
ebb

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Tammy Brown

Dear Nell:

You knit
stories
and students,
imaginations
into zephyrs
that ruffle commonplaces
and uncover distant truths

sojourner, herstorian--
painting timeless landscapes
conjuring voices
and the guts and gore
of not so distant places
visaging the faceless--
fellow travelers look on

As you can see, I am exercising my post-generals resolution to revive my poetic side. :-) Such a birthday tribute is fitting because one of the qualities that I admire most is the CREATIVITY you bring to your scholarship and teaching. I also appreciate your generosity, dedication, and energy. One indelible memory from this past semester is of a trip you took on a Tuesday to guest lecture at a university in Texas, because I was amazed at how you still kept your Monday and Wednesday office hours and classes at Princeton! Such commitment is characteristic Painter-style. You always show up, and rest assured that your students notice. Not only do I hope to look that good when I'm your age, but I also hope to have just as much vim and vigor!!!! Happy Birthday!

peace & love,
Tammy L. Brown

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Dorothy Browne

Greetings from one of the members of the "Tina Turner Society." Please tell me that you remember this feisty group of women whose motto was: "We are not getting older--just getting better". Nell, are you getting older? I can not believe that you will be 60 on August 2nd. Last week, I had dinner with Dr. John Hope Franklin, a neighbor and a friend. In fact, John and "Booknotes" are my sources of information regarding your activities--- publications, speaking at Fisk, etc. John shared with me the fact that you would be 60 on your next birthday. I shared with him the fact that your strength and intelligence sustained me when I moved from Harvard in 1981 to assume an academic position at UNC-CH. Although I have not been in touch with you and the other members of the Tina Turner Society, I have followed your successes and triumphs. You, most of all, have been a model for me and I thank you for "showing the way."

Dorothy C. Browne (Howze)
Durham, North Carolina
Retired from UNC-CH--8/1/02

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Beverlee Bruce
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Dear Nell:

Congratulations on all you have accomplished thus far. I can only imagine the heights you will scale in the future. Although our time at Harvard, where we met, are some years in the past, it seems as though it was just yesterday when you and I shared some memorable occasions in Cambridge: meeting Nieman Fellow Hollie West, driving Chinua Achebe back to Amherst in a torrential rain after his visit at Lowell House where you had invited him to speak, the Black Women’s Symposium at Radcliffe that you signed me up for where I was in your Discussion Group with Lucretia Brown, Marcia Gillespie and Toni Cade Bambara and where Alice Walker whispered her "In Our Mother’s Gardens" piece, and to think I had planned to go to Widener instead. But then, you have always been purposeful and direct, which is why you are successful. One other memory is the day we went to the gym exercised and swam several laps. When we came out on what was a snowy day, we were so vibrant, we felt we could melt the snow and I think we did. Since Harvard I have kept up with your contributions to our historical record. I won’t forget the Brownie points I gained when you came to speak at Howard and the Chairman of the History Department who had invited you realized that you and I knew each other. Another since Harvard memory is our touching base at Chinua Achebe’s Seventieth Birthday and attending his dinner. But most important has been your marshalling support for our friend Claudia. The Princeton Symposium was quite a tribute to her and I know that much of it was the result of your effort.

Well Nell, I look forward to keeping up with you on both a personal level but also in terms of your peerless scholarship that I so look forward to.

Many Happy Returns of the Day.
Beverlee

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D. Graham Burnett

Dear Nell:

Very happy birthday!!

From Graham and Christina

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Mary Ellen Butler

Dear Nell: Those of us who went to high school and college with you and have followed your magnificent career since then are exceedingly proud of your accomplishments and contributions to literature and the field of history. You bring honor to the old home town!

Best wishes for continued happiness, personally and professionally.

Sincerely,
Mary Ellen Butler

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Mark Byrne

Dear Nell:
Bless you on your birthday - with more years and what they bring: more experience, more wisdom, more peace!
You were such an unexpected surprise when you came into our unexpected household back in Kansas back then. What a strange little group we were and you arrived with your gifts and your heart! I remember your great common sense, your patient kindness. Your first mission was to get rid of the furniture - and then you continued to give direction to the family - Glenn and the children, me hovering around. How funny to think I was the nanny at the wedding in Princeton! And your visit to Rome years later. I always found it so easy to talk with you despite our different visions of life - moreso than many whom you'd expect to share my vision. I was grateful for that. Calm assurance, a great smile, a desire for truth. These qualities are not common anymore but you have them. I am grateful to God that I have known you. That sweater you knitted me ended up being worn by one of our young nuns in Rome. I said to her one day, "You might be interested to know the person behind the sweater." In the world's eyes, we are very different people. In God's eyes, maybe we are much closer than we realize. And I hope that will all be realized when all our years in this world and all our birthdays are past.

Love and my blessing.

Fr. Mark Byrne, solt
Precious Blood Church
Buffalo, New York

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Eduardo Cadava

Dear Nell,

I was delighted to hear about your birthday and to hear that Glenn was making it possible for your friends and admirers to send you our warmest wishes on this birthday.

I hope that your summer has been full of pleasure and relaxation, and I hope that you experience this birthday as another register of all the beautiful and wondrous things you have accomplished, done, enjoyed, and given to everyone around you.

I am in Athens right now, so 'chronia polla,' Nell. I thank you for everything that you are.

I'll return to Princeton in mid-August and let's plan on having a celebratory lunch soon after we're both back. It would be nice to see you and to catch up on everything.

Take care,
Eduardo

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Leslie Callahan

Happy birthday, Nell.

There is so much that I admire about your person and your work: your generosity, your ingenuity, your hospitality, your mentoring, your connectedness, your independence, your humor, your honesty, your integrity, your dogged determination, your flexibility, your hard work, your ease and grace. I often say that I want to be like you when I grow up.

Thank you for awakening the historian in me and starting her on her way.

Leslie D. Callahan

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Hazel Carby

Dearest Nell, I send my love and deepest admiration on the occasion of your 60th birthday. Wow, you look so good too! Hugs and kisses. Hazel

Hazel V. Carby
Department of African American Studies
Yale University

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Clay Carson

Dear Nell,

How could you be sixty when I still think of you as one of the younger generation of historians that I belong to? How quickly the years have passed by. Have we already reached the age when it's difficult to remember the time we first met? Was it in North Carolina, when you were working on the Hosea Hudson book? In any case, it seems that our careers have intersected in so many different and wonderful ways. I've always admired you and everything you have produced during your stellar career. If there is any regret about my years at Stanford, it is that I failed in my attempt to bring you here (Stanford's loss rather than yours).

We have not had many opportunities to extended discussions over the years (it's never too late!), but I have vivid memories of those occasions when we could have extended talks about our mutual interests. You have influenced me (in good ways) more than you'll ever know and are a special person who deserves all the accolades you will receive on your birthday.

Please accept my best wishes and love as you begin a new period of your life.

Clay Carson

Professor Clayborne Carson
Director, Martin Luther King, Jr., Papers Project
Stanford University

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Nancy Cartwright

Dear Nell

Much love, hugs and kisses from far away friends...Nancy, Emily and Sophie Cartwright (and Emily's little girl, Lucy) and Stuart Hampshire. And many many happy returns.

Nancy

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Barbara Chase-Riboud

Dear Nell, Happy Birthday and 60 more! By now you will have received your birthday present I sent to your P.O. Box in Vermont with all our affection and respect. Looking forward to seeing you soon.

I miss you and love you,

Barbara

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Nancy Clapp-Channing

Happy 60th, my life long beach buddie!

Many years ago in Chapel Hill you said you weren't fearful of aging, in fact you looked forward to it.... Well, you've been down a few more tracks than I..., but this is sent with lots of love and best wishes that this birthday and the decade that follows offers the time to "put it all together"! What a rich life you've woven, and how lucky I am to have been one of the strands all these years, starting at the "round tables" at Leo's Pizza!

A toast to life and friendship,
Nancita

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Bettye Collier-Thomas

Dear Nell,

Today you will celebrate another milestone in what has been a wonderful life filled with numerous achievements and great success. Your life, career, and persona have served as a model for many aspiring scholars, particularly women, seeking ways to negotiate the thickets of the academy and to achieve their personal and professional goals.

We first met during the early 1970s at the annual meeting of either the OAH or the AHA. However, your impact on me and my career as a historian began around 1974 or 1975 at the OAH meeting in Washington, D.C., where I presented a paper on Harvey Johnson and the Brotherhood of Liberty. I have never forgotten your liberal praise and enthusiasm for my work on that occasion, and am more than grateful for the support you have given me throughout the years. Among the many things that I admire about you, it is your sheer honesty that has meant so much to me. While you offered me praise, you also gave me advice and suggested strategies for achieving some of my academic and scholarly goals. It is because of you and Charles (1990) that I shifted from collecting data to publishing books. And, earlier this year when I was very depressed over my mother's death, you sent me a note and said "now you are an orphan." I laughed and was energized by the comment. Of course, your wit and humor equal your scholarship.

I also have pleasant memories of your visits to Washington and the time you spent with us at Tewkesbury Place. On one occasion you were locked out and instead of getting upset you simply stretched out on the front porch and napped until we arrived home. I have always admired your practicality and patience.

You are not getting older, but better! Last September at the ABWH luncheon you spoke about your plans for life after the academy. On that occasion you provided salient advice to women scholars, young and old, about how to succeed in the academy without being stressed out. And, you also talked about how to move forward with grace and continue to enjoy life in retirement. You will never fully know the impact of your speech on that occasion. However, I can assure you it was great.

Happy 60th birthday Nell! Best wishes to you and Glenn.

Sincerely,
Bettye Collier-Thomas

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Lupe Copendah

Dear Nell,

You are approaching a major event in your life, and as you do, I wish you the very best. May your 60th birthday be filled with unlimited joy, love, peace of mind prosperity, and ecstasy. I am blessed to know you. Many blessings to you, and happy 60th birthday. Love and blessings.

Lupe Copendah
First Church Family

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Nancy Cott

Dear Nell -- you got so much done in only 60 years, and while looking so glamourous too! my very warmest wishes on this round birthday. May you reach a century! And relish the wisdom thereby gained . . . Enjoy, enjoy!

As always,
Nancy Cott

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Anastasia Curwood

Nell, it's such a pleasure to be offering you a tribute for your 60th birthday. I can't express how much I respect your scholarship, mentoring, and zest for life. I have a deep appreciation for your unfailing encouragement and belief in my abilities as a historian. You have been there for me without fail from my first days at Princeton, generously giving advice, reassurance, Thanksgiving dinners, and, when necessary, firm motivational prodding! As a world citizen, I am grateful for the incredibly creative thinking that you do about the present and the past, and I am constantly impressed by your openness to new ways of understanding. Your personal and intellectual vitality will always be a model for the kind of person I want to be.

We are all very lucky to have you. Congratulations on your first sixty years, and my very best wishes for the next.

Love,
Anastasia Curwood

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Jane Dailey

Dearest Nell,

If you are sixty all I can say is, bring it on!

IÕve been dilatory in writing to you, enjoying reading what others have written. This combination birthday greeting-testimonial is a tricky genre. Many of your students have written of the gifts you have given us: your knowledge, your wit, your genuine, hard-earned wisdom. I wonder if you have any real appreciation of your effect on our lives. (Particularly during your vegan periodÉ.) Not that you haven't learned from us as well. I know, for instance, that after me you asked all your graduate students, "Are you using birth control?"

I would like to wish you (and David joins in as well) a very, very happy birthday. I wish you, my teacher Nell Irvin Painter, many long years with us. You should keep on knitting, and enjoy art school, but not deprive us entirely of your thoughts in the form of words.

With tremendous affection and admiration,
Jane

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John Daves

Happy Birthday Professor Painter! I was so pleased to hear from Glenn and to have a small part in the birthday celebration and the birth of your website. Your career was an inspiration before I met you and you became much more of one after I started coming to the seminars.

Coming to the seminars at Princeton not only became a pleasurable learning experience for me, but they also gave me the opportunity to get to know you. Your kindness and support were crucial in my development. I will never forget the opportunity to be on a panel discussion with you on Thomas Jefferson's Affair with Sally Hemings. After the panel discussion, I began to feel that I could become a scholar. If you had that much belief in my capabilities, I knew that I could find the confidence in myself. Consequently, I would talk about you and the panel discussion with my father. Since I was in high school, he has left articles on my bed from the New York Times, The Chronicle of Higher Education, The New Yorker about what is happening in academia. He has always been impressed with your scholarship. As you know, my father attends the seminars and we often discuss the role you played in my intellectual growth. We cannot thank you enough.

I want to give you a quick update. Professor Peterson is my dissertation advisor. I am also working with Professor Caughey on a Life History project. I am beginning to do research and to form a narrative about growing up in a black family of teachers and scholars that begins before the Civil War. Along with my research, The American Studies Department has provided me with an opportunity to create my own Core Courses.

I would love to hear about your courses. I understand that you are currently teaching and doing research on Whiteness. Again, Happy Birthday Professor Painter! I miss being able to come to Princeton and talk to you. I hope to hear from you soon. Although I may not have said this enough, you have meant a great deal to me and to my father.

Sincerely,
John Daves

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Natalie Davis

Hail to you, Nell, on this 60th birthday, part of a brilliant life of beauty and achievement. We think of you going strong, vibrant and insightful, bringing new understanding to the past and good values, warmth, and hope for the present and the future.

Love from Natalie Davis, enthusiastically seconded by Chandler Davis

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Thadious Davis
  (see photo album)

My Dear Nell,

There are turning points in life: the years, the events, the people, the places, even the emotions. Long-lived friendship comes with images, some grainy, some surreal, but all caught in the curve of the heart. Scrolling back over nearly 30 years, I remember you, Nell, in the 1970s--smart, savvy, spirited, sensitive-- like the strong women who survive hurricane season to build anew. I see you now in 2002--smart, savvy, spirited, sensitive--like the heroines of our yesterdays and tomorrows. And I am amazed at how much you have remained you, your very own self, even as you have transformed yourself--growing, thickening, deepening (OK, graying too!). I am still surprised by your optimism and determination to untangle the wilds and tame the rivers-- or the snakes. In turning 60, you are rounding the curve of transformation. I wish you every joy and great serenity in a turning point that opens out to new pleasures and all possibilities.

With love and admiration on your special day,
Thad

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Jane De Hart

Dear Nell,
When I first met you when you were at Penn, the possibility of either of us turning sixty seemed as remote as an afterlife. But it has happened. The intervening years have been immeasurably enriched for me by your friendship, sharing those years as colleagues at UNC, and a longer relationship as members of the UNC Press Gender and Culture Series. Enjoy the big 60 and remember Emily Dickinson's "We turn not older with years, but newer with everyday." Happy Birthday, my dear. And may there be many more!
Cheers,

Jane

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Jennifer Delton

For the past six decades Nell has served this planet in her capacity as herself and we are all better off for it. A person who reminds us how the lives of ordinary people have shaped the world we live in, we should not be surprised at the enormous impact her own life has had on others. I have always felt unduly fortunate in having found Nell as a mentor and teacher, or as it seemed then having Nell find me. When I first met Nell I was overawed by her beauty, her style, her vast knowledge of things weighty and arcane, and the authority and clarity with which she spoke. Despite this daunting perfection, she turned out to be one of the warmest, most loyal, most generous and giving people I had ever met. She had this way of making it seem as though your work mattered, as though what you had to say might somehow change everything - if only you could first address a series of questions and problems she laid out before you. Which is to say she demanded the most of you. I have counted on her skepticism and her insistence that I be clear about whom it is I am speaking, with the consequence that every sentence I write I hear her voice behind me, softly, "ALL women, Jennifer?" As her student, however, I was denied one opportunity: the opportunity to join my peers in their grievances as graduate students. Many a long night I listened to grousing, complaints, long sessions of the travails of advising relationships unfulfilled. But I could never join in. I was an outlier. I had no complaints. My adviser read my chapters promptly. My adviser provided ample and useful criticism. My adviser promoted my interests. My adviser cared. But the real point here is not so much how my life is better for having met Nell, but that she showed me how people do good in the world, how they can be friends and mentors, so that I would in turn try to live up to that model of duty, truth-seeking, and public-mindedness that she so beautifully embodies. So cheers, Nell. Happy Sixtieth, from one of your fiercely devoted students, Jennifer.

Jennifer Delton
Skidmore College

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Jeanette & René Demeestere

To my Dear Friend Nell, Sister of Time & Place & People in Our Lives:

Berkeley … Bordeaux … Paris … Marthas Vineyard … Berlin
… "My husband teaches at a business school but he's really a mathematician!" …
Sojourner Truth … Else Lasker-Schüler … ART …
May our lives keep on joining and our friendship keep on growing.
On t'embrasse très fort, Joyeux Anniversaire Nell,

Jeanette & René Demeestere

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Art & Elizabeth Dempster

Dear Nell:

Birthday greetings. Your 7th decade and beyond is shaping up as full of new, happy, and productive things, and we wish you all the best in your endeavors. We look forward to getting together with you and Glenn here or in NJ.

Sincerely,
Art & Elizabeth Dempster

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Lita Carmen DeSeville

To Professor Nell, The "Princeton U Birthday Belle".

I'm sending a barrel of good wishes your way, to help celebrate your special day, in grand and glorious style, the occasion of (reaching) your 60th Birthday mile! So sip a glass of champagne or two and I will raise my glass in toast to you, Professor Nell, The "Birthday Belle" of Princeton U.

Love and Hugs,
Lita Carmen DeSeville,
The First Church Family,
Oakland, California.

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Shalanda Dexter
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Kahlil Gibran writes in his book The Prophet that, "You give but little when you give of possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give. There are those who have little and give it all. These are the believers in life and the bounty of life, their coffer is never empty. Through the hands of such as these God speaks, and from behind their eyes He smiles upon the earth." As I join in the celebration of your 60th birthday, I wanted to thank you for your giving spirit. God has not only given you the gift of intelligence but more importantly a compassionate and loving heart. It has almost been a decade since I met you. You cared enough to reach out to a shy and insecure students and mentor her to become a scholar like yourself. Thank you so much for giving more than what was required and caring more than was expected. Your spirit and presence lives in my work and my relationship with my own students. May God's blessings rest upon your life and know that I love you dearly."

Shalanda Dexter

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Gloria Dickinson
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Dear Nell,

Wishing you a Sensational and Significant Sixtieth! We all continue to learn, and grow and you shower us with your limitless gifts of scholarship and "sister-frienship."

All the best from your "fellow-Leo"
Gloria

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Hasia Diner

Nell:

First a hearty happy birthday! Milestones are wonderful and appropriate moments to not only take stock of ourselves, but allow the world to praise us. And praise is what you deserve. Your elegance, your articulateness, your deep scholarship and broad humanity put you in a category unto yourself. Your writings --EXODUSTERS and STANDING AT ARMAGEDDON, the ones I know best-- are exemplars of close research and broad vision, of care with detail and a wide lens on the meanings we can derive from the past. Your writing and your speaking come together in a "package" of real class. You are a tough act to follow, but you set a standard that we all have to measure ourselves against.

Bravo for your contribution, and as we say in Hebrew: "ad meah v'esrim" --until 120!

My best for this year and for many to come:

Hasia

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Nancy DiTomaso

Dear Nell,
Happy 60th Birthday! I have enjoyed the opportunity to get to know you, to learn of the wonderful work you are doing, and to share, however briefly, some of my ideas and concerns as well. In pursuit of a path I can no longer recall for my book project, I picked up Standing at Armageddon (great title!) and was exceptionally impressed with the lucid and beautiful writing, in addition to the insight and scholarship of the book. I have since enjoyed the occasional "family letter" or "travelogue," with the same clear and clever text. I have happily observed your joy in the evolution of your work and your relationship with your family. And, I have appreciated the invitations to stop by or join a party when our calendars merged. Although the work I am doing is not historical, as such, there are obviously important overlaps in themes and frameworks in the work I have been trying to do and what you have done and expect to do. I have felt enriched by learning of your work, and I have been delighted to learn as well of your prominence, influence, and stature in the field. The more women; the more black women; and the more responsible, caring, and sensible women at the top, the better it will be for all of us. Hope you have at least 60 more years!
With warm regards,

Nancy DiTomaso
Rutgers Business School

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Ellen DuBois

Dear Nell: Your sixtieth birthday is more than your sixtieth birthday; it is a milestone for all of us. I have gotten so much out of the ideas and mentoring and dilemmas we have shared. You have my unqualified respect and friendship, Dear Nell. Here's to many future mutual enrichments and to your own well-deserved enjoyment of your innumerable contributions.

Love,
Ellen DuBois
Los Angeles, CA

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Ann duCille

Dear Nell,

Happy Birthday, you brilliant, goregous gal! Sixty never looked so good.

Love and best wishes,
Ann duCille

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Heddye Ducree

Happy Birthday, Nell

May your brillance continue to shine and enrich the minds and lives of those who are touched by your genius and spirit! Your quiet dignity and sensitivity are qualities that I have admired over the years. I recall with a smile and a grateful heart your thoughtfulness and concern for my health and well-being several years ago. Simply an example of your caring nature in the midst of all you have to do! You have given of yourself in other significant ways to so many of us at Princeton...always inspiring, cautioning, educating, and motivating us to higher heights. Thank you, my friend.

Wishing you good health, continued success, inner peace and love,

Heddye Ducree
Director, Carl A. Fields Center for Equality and Cultural Understanding
Princeton University

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Harry Dunbar

As an admirer of the scholarship of Nell Irvin Painter, I count it a great privilege as well as a pleasure to join in this 60th birthday tribute to her. As a student of Prof. Painter's work, I have sought to understand how she arrived at the perspective she holds. It is clear to me that family was the venue that was most influential and that she must have been raised in one of those happy families that Tolstoy characterized as "all alike," which experience allowed her to develop the keen understanding evident in her work and the supportive sensibility demonstrated by her extensive mentoring. I am pleased to add my voice to others from the scholarly community in extending "Best wishes for many happy returns!" to Professor Painter.

I also join in extending best wishes to Dona and Frank Painter on their 65th wedding anniversary celebrated earlier this year and congratulate them on the achievements of their daughter.

Harry B. Dunbar
Dunbar On Black Books
<www.queenhyte.com/dobb.html>

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Troy Duster

Dear Nell,

Warmest best wishes and Happy Birthday greetings.

Happily, for someone with your talents and skills, and for the "life of the mind" -- it does get even better!!

a big hug,
Troy Duster

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Marcia & Michael Dyson

Dear Nell:

We don't want to be impolite, but forgive us if we briefly wallow in disbelief at the news that you are about to celebrate your sixtieth birthday! Although that's a milestone of which you should be darned proud, we're just amazed that you're a day over forty-five. You look marvelous! Happy Birthday!

Nell, you probably don't realize just how influential you have been in our lives. You have set a standard of scholarly achievement that has been a beacon to the generations that have come after you. We have often turned to your work to learn about periods and personalities that have been overlooked, undervalued or misinterpreted. We marvel at the clarity and brilliance of your mind, the eloquence of your prose, and the depth of your research. Your words are bathed in wise and critical judgment. Your insights leap off the page and change how we view the past we thought we new and beckon us to consider a past we never knew existed.

If your scholarship is remarkable, your commitment to nurturing younger scholars is equally extraordinary. In an academy rife with pettiness and backbiting, you have managed to remain steady in your praise and support of the worthy novice. Although we have never enjoyed the opportunity to literally sit at your feet, we have felt the reach of your interest and basked in the good reports you have sent our way. We have encountered so many younger scholars who say the same. They constantly remark on your incredible loyalty, your high standards, your insistence that they discover their best, and your ongoing support once they have begun their careers.

What is winning about you is that in a profession dominated by old guys and even older ideas about howto behave, you have truly outdone Sinatra and have done it your way. Your irreverence is splendid, your fearlessness simply edifying. I (Mike) can remember the first time I met you, in a lecture hall at Princeton as a second-year graduate student during a lecture given by a potential colleague as the school was recruiting you. You sat there knitting, and I watched your attention to detail and your care for style that also mark your books. And when the lecturer was done, you posed the most penetrating and provocative question, peeking over your glasses as you pressed your point. It was riveting, not only showing that you were a doyenne of multi-tasking before it gained vogue, but it gave all of us grad students the courage to be independent and contrary if need be. I suppose I can blame you, then, for my King book, if not for its contents, then surely for its spirit!

Nell, we are pleased to announce that you have shown us some skills that would make Ms. Cleo envious! I (Marcia) remember that you bet me twenty dollars that I wouldn't be able to remain in Chapel Hill for long. Well, after Providence, Rhode Island, I wasn't convinced you could possibly be right. I was determined to prove that my money was safe, but your crystal ball finally prevailed, although I never paid you. I'll have to make good on our bet and take you to dinner now that we're within shouting distance.

In the end, it is just how you exist in the world that warms our hearts and causes us to praise God that she brought you to us, to the world, to give us an idea of how to live your life with style and substance. You are what we dream to be when we dare think we can do half of what you have done with as much fortitude and courage. We love you, Nell, and we wish you every good thing on your birthday, and sixty more years to sing your song!

Love,
Marcia & Michael Dyson

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Mary Enright & Dave Carroll

Nell,

So another birthday is upon you! You have a lot to celebrate - a life full of gifts - beauty, intelligence, accomplishments, and a loving husband! (Glenn didn't make me say that.)

We'll miss you and Glenn when you leave Princeton but hope we'll see you in your new home.

Happy Birthday
Mary Enright

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Crystal Feimster
  (see photo album)

My Dearest Nell,

Happy 60th Birthday!!!

I hope that after six decades I will have accomplished at least half as much as you have and look so Good! You are truely one amazing woman. Your wisdom, kindness, support, love, and encouragment have sustained me for almost a decade. I can't begin to tell you how you have and continue to impact my life. We both know that I'm a historian because of you. You made survival at Princeton possible and completion of the dissertation a reality. I will not recount the horrors of that first year at Princeton, but I will say you were the only reason I didn't drop out. I can't thank you enough.

I hope this next decades brings you more than you've ever imagined and all the happiness you deserve.

Celebrate! Celebrate! Celebrate!

All My Love,
Crystal

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Neil Foley

Dear Nell,

I had to go to Berlin for a year to finally meet you and have you all to myself for some memorable lunches. Thank you for being the inspiration you have been, and continue to be, to generations of scholars. Ich gratuliere Dir zum Geburtstag und wuensche Dir alles Gute.

Neil Foley
University of Texas

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Judith Jackson Fossett

Dearest Nell,

Clayton, Alden and I send you warmest salutations from Southern California! We send a virtual birthday gift of gratitude for your presence in our lives.

Thank you for being my teacher. Thank you for providing a peerless model of scholarly integrity and productivity. Thank you for offering wise counsel. Thank you for showcasing the talents of others. Thank you for welcoming young scholars into your circle of intellectual peers that reaches far beyond the Princeton Borough limits. Thank you for welcoming my family into the wondrous world of yours, especially into the orbit of Frank and Dona.

Six years ago we spent an afternoon together in Beverly Hills (during your book tour for the Truth biography) when I was still a green Angeleno, having only been in Los Angeles for two months. I was earning a paycheck; I was finally able to take you to lunch! I thought of that afternoon as a lovely bookend to my graduate days as I began my stint as assistant professor. Little did I know that that meeting was merely one of many in the last six years; that it was a beginning to a new and richer stage in our relationship. Please always know what a difference you have made in my academic life. It is the gift you keep on giving to all those around you, and one for which I am truly grateful.

Have the happiest of birthdays! And best wishes to Glenn and the rest of your family.

With love and warmest wishes,
Judith Jackson Fossett

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Jim & Lillian Fox

Happy Birthday Nell,

Congratulations on reaching this milestone in your life. You have achieved much in your years and we are sure that you have much more to add to your list of accomplishments. We have always enjoyed the times you and Glenn have spent at our house.

We are happy for you and wish you many, many more Happy Birthdays.

Remember, the hot tub is always ready for you.
Jim & Lillian Fox

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John Hope Franklin

Dear Nell,
Let's see, can you recall the first time we met? Was it at the University of Pennsylvania? I think so. In any case, we have met many, many times since, and each meeting has been a happy and rewarding experience. Each meeting has deepened my admiration for who you are and what you do. I believe that you and I view history in similar ways; to illuminate and interpret the past in order to "map" what we think the future should be. At least that is what I glean from your work, and that is what I try to do with mine. This note is to wish you the happiest birthday you have ever had and to hope that each succeeding one will surpass its predecessor. You are starting on a high note--touring the Gaspe Peninsula. Do not come down from that high anytime soon. Much love, and best wishes to you and Glenn.

Sincerely,
John Hope Franklin
June 3, 2002

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Julia Furlow

What a person, what a mentor, what a scholar! It gives me joy just to know you! From skinny legs to preteen blushing, to Sunday School discussions, you have become the epitome of excellence in history, sociology, plus loyalty to those back home who stick out our proud chests in pride and glory. Thank you! I just can't say enough good things about you. You've transcended them all. Stay close to God! We all love you.

Julia Furlow of Downs Church

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Kevin Gaines

Happy 60th birthday, Nell!

As a scholar and mentor, you have set a standard for excellence that places you in the most rarefied and select company. I will always be grateful for your incisive and extremely helpful criticism as I was finishing my book. I know that I am just one of the many who have benefited from your invaluable advice and assistance. I was most fortunate to have you as a mentor and colleague at the start of my career. Back then, you and Glenn brought a great deal of warmth and fun to African American studies in a refreshingly un-Princetonlike manner. Your innovative study Exodusters not only revolutionized our understanding of African American political behavior, but has also provided a model for critical analyses of black leadership. Your biography of Sojourner Truth (a return to the enigmatic figure who made a brief appearance in Exodusters) is a meticulous and elegant account of Truth's life and legacy. In addition, your _Truth_ brilliantly illuminates the vexed intersection between African American and womenUs histories and the complex relationship between social activism, memory, authenticity, and historical writing. Your scholarship has advanced and enriched the field of Black studies, particularly through its rigorous attention to gender issues. Your contributions to the historical profession, to the Black studies intellectual tradition, and to the good fight, are a fitting tribute to your own mentors, and such forerunners as W.E.B. DuBois, Paul Robeson, Lorraine Hansberry, E. Franklin Frazier, and John Hope Franklin. After all is said and done, it is your distinguished record as teacher, scholar, public intellectual and advisor for so much pathbreaking scholarship that will inspire the admiration and awe of future generations.

Kevin

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Skip Gates

Dear Nell:

My admiration for your mastery of the art and science of historiography is matched only by the depth of my respect for your integrity, and your undaunted spirit. I wish you good health, the greatest happiness, and a long and productive life of the mind.

Happy Birthday!
Skip Gates

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Glenda Gilmore
   (see photo album)

Dear Nell, Happy Birthday! I remember the two lobsters that I ate on your 50th, and the great time we had. Hope this day is as happy.

Love,
Glenda Gilmore
Yale University

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Paula Giddings

I've been told this is the site to wish Nell a VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Hope you're doing great Nell. I'm now at Smith and enjoying it.

Take care,
Paula

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Eagle Glassheim

Dear Nell,

It has been a pleasure to have in you a colleague who suggests what Princeton can be at its best: challenging, willing to try new things, critical. I wish you and the values you embody a long and happy reign in the years to come.

Eagle Glassheim
Princeton

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William Gleason

Dear Nell -- What a grand day! Happy 60th! We're so very lucky to have you as a colleague -- best wishes for a wonderful celebration!

All best,
Bill Gleason
Department of English

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Annette Gordan-Reed

Dear Nell,

I wish you much joy on your 60th (!?) birthday. You are an inspiration to me, and I know to countless others. I have enjoyed the too few occasions we've been together -- which tend to revolve around discussions of Thomas Jefferson. You will probably remember the very interesting evening we spent with Barbara Chase-Riboud.

I look forward to your future work, participating in discussions with you (on TJ related matters and not) and contacting you for wise counsel.

Health and happiness to you for years to come!

Best,
Annette

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Kali Nicole Gross

Dear Nell,

You are an inspiring black woman, historian, and scholar. Your work powerfully influences my scholarship, as it possesses a precise analysis of labor, race, gender, sexuality, and oppression in African-American Studies. Bold and transformative, your research unflinchingly explores the murky depths of liberty, bigotry, and historical memory. But perhaps more impressive than this, is your commitment to mentor young scholars- those within your institution and those, like me, who seek you out because of your contributions to the field and the academy. Although many established scholars claim the practice, few ever truly guide graduate students and young scholars through the landmines embedded in higher education. You speak with wisdom and candor always, and it is this characteristic that I appreciate most of all. Whatever your verdict, one can be sure that it will be frank, clear, and trustworthy. This type of integrity requires a level of courage that is rare. Thanks for being all of these things and for taking the time to help me.

Happy Birthday Sisterfire!

Warmly,
Kali
PS - Tell Ms. Dona that I hope I look that good now!

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Ramón Gutiérrez

Nell at 60. What a wonderful event that must be. Wish I could be there in person to celebrate, to make a wish for 60 more, and to glory in your life and accomplishment.

Kisses, warm wishes,
Ramón Gutiérrez

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Adam Gussow

Dear Nell--

Not merely to have survived, but to have prevailed: fearless and original thinker, inspired and inspiring teacher, prime mover of African American Studies at Princeton, AND a fan of country music! What a joyous occasion this birthday is! You are the reference standard for an intellectual engagement grounded in uncommon sense. Thanks for the wonderful example you've set, the enlivening lectures you've graced us with, and the irksome, needed questions with which you've repeatedly challenged us. Many blessings on this birthday and the many to follow.

in friendship and fellowship,
Adam Gussow
Assistant Professor
English & Southern Studies
The University of Mississippi

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Debra Newman Ham

Thank you Nell for being a gracious, productive and exacting scholar, a mentor, and a friend. Your leadership of Black women historians as well as Black women's history itself has revolutionized the field. Since the Association of Black Women Historians was in its infancy, you gave of your time and your funds to keep it going.

You have taken time to nurture many students, including myself. You encouraged me when I was at Boston University in the 1970s. You have read two of my voluminous manuscripts making copious comments and suggestions and have not flailed me because those manuscripts are not yet in print. I pray that they will soon be sitting on a publisher's desk.

I salute your commitment to excellence. I am grateful for the blows you took for us because you were in the vanguard. I sincerely hope that you will continue to be relentless in your quest for truth.

God bless you,
Debra Newman Ham
Professor of History
Morgan State University

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Evelynn Hammonds

Dear Nell,
As a young scholar your work was so important to helping me believe that I could be a historian. In the years since we met you have continued to be for me a shining example of the best kind of scholar -- one who pushes the boundaries of the scholarship while nurturing students to do their very best work. It has been a real joy to be your colleague and to watch you soar!! Have a wonderful, wonderful birthday!!

Evelynn Hammonds
Assoc. Prof. of the History of Science
Massachusetts Institute of Technology

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Camilla Hardmeyer

Glenn: PLEASE INCLUDE MY WARMEST BIRTHDAY WISHES TO NELL ON THE EVENT OF HER 60TH BIRTHDAY. SHE IS A GREAT INSPIRATION TO ME. MUCH LOVE TO NELL AND TO YOU.

CAMILLA

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Sharon Harley

Dear Nell,

I join a host of other scholars to honor you on your 60th birthday and love you for being a giant of a scholar, and even more wonderful sister friend.

Love,
Sharon Harley

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Lucy & Gil Harman

Dearest Nell,

Happy 60th Birthday!!! We have loved having you as a neighbor and friend and talking about everything from knitting to Lacan. Best wishes for the next 60 years!

Love,
Lucy & Gil Harman

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Dirk Hartog

Having Nell Painter as a colleague and a friend has been one of the great pleasures of my time at Princeton. Amid an excess of Princetonian civility, Nell is there to remind us that there are things worth fighting about. And she models an honest, engaged, self-revealing intellectual life. It's not always fun to be on the wrong end of Nell's anger, but it is always "educational," a learning experience as we used to say. And the writing and the scholarship is always "essential": bracing, challenging, brimming with the "next new thing," and interesting.

Happy birthday, Nell. And here's to many many more. I hope the move to Newark ends up keeping you happy at Princeton (There's a New Jersey paradox for you.), perhaps even giving us more time together.

Dirk

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Aleta Hayes

Nell Painter- Your name evokes a constellation of thoughts about our friendship and your mentorship.

When you first asked me to collaborate as a co-lecturer in AAS 201-Introduction to African American Cultural Practices, I had little idea of how that opportunity would impact my life, nor that it would lead me to find a special niche at Princeton University as an artist AND a scholar. Later this experience and your guidance led me to develop my own courses combining African American expressive culture, performance theory, history, and composition lab for the program. You acknowledged me as a peer, a challenge which I was obliged to meet, but I was also