Aladrian & Carl Mack
(see
photo album) |
Dear Nell:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY from the MACKS - Aladrian & Carl.
It is no accident that while we are in the Motherland - Zulu-natal, South
Africa - you will be celebrating your 60th birthday. We are with you in
spirit/soul and welcome you into this new decade of excitement in your
life!
Aladrian & Carl Mack
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Kenneth Mack
(see
photo album) |
Although my identity as a historian is one of the most
important of the many identities that I inhabit, I came to Princeton as
a graduate student in 1994 as a 29-year old lawyer who knew next to nothing
about history. By the time I left campus in 1999, I could in good conscience
call myself a historian. Nell Painter is the person most responsible for
my making that transition. My first year at Princeton was a heady time.
I was admitted in a class that contained an unprecedented (in recent memory)
four African-American students, all of whom wanted to spend a significant
portion of our time studying with Nell and all of whom were intimidated
by Nell's erudition. We all had a lot to learn. I can even remember speaking
to Nell via phone before I was admitted, and hearing her tell me that at
Princeton graduate students do cutting edge history, involving the "linguistic
turn." I, and my graduate student cohort, quickly learned what that meant
in her seminars in Social History and Southern History, and in our periodic
meetings at Nell's house on Fitzrandolph road for the New History Seminar.
We learned how to be both careful and cutting edge historians, and how to
be intellectually curious and push the boundaries of our pre-existing thinking,
particularly with regard to the intersection of race, class and gender.
I'm sure that I join a chorus of graduate students in saying thanks for
sharing so much of your time with your students, and helping to transform
their intellectual and professional lives.
Kenneth W. Mack
Harvard Law School
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Marlene & Peter MacLeish
(see
photo album) |
Dear Nell:
Your sweet friendship has been a wonderful part of
our lives for more than thirty years...and your elegant books a constant
in Christmas and birthdays packages to Odetta (the Currier House Brat
you knew so well) and Raymond, now enrolled at Fordham Law School. Peter
and I remain your faithful television fans and look forward to your Christmas
letters to hear of recent adventures and your wonderful live with Glenn.
Peter and I are proud of your fine accomplishments.
We send our love and very best wishes for your sixtieth birthday.
Do come visit with us in Atlanta... we are making
our contribution to Morehouse Medical School...and keeping the faith that
we have so profoundly learned from your fine works.
Love
Marlene & Peter
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Debora Macy |
Dear Nell,
What a joy it is to know you. Your warmth and kindness
are immediately apparent, and your constant smile lights up a room.
I wish for you a wonderfully happy birthday, with
many, many more to come.
Love,
Debbie Macy
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Edris Makward |
Dear Nell;
Please receive my heart felt congratulations and
wishes for many more years of continuation with the good work. I still
remember fondly walking and discussing with you, the "Black Revolution"
and your passioinate commitment to it,on a Berkley street, some time in
...1969! You have indeed contributed a lot since, in helping many young-
and not so young- people, here and elsewhere, understand the profound
meaning of my favorite Wolof saying- much deeper than the Socrates"know
thyself":
"xam sa bop moo gen nu la koy wax!
(Know yourself before they tell you!)
HAPPY 60TH! NELL
From an older fellow traveller, Edris Makward
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Waldo Martin |
Dear Nell:
On this momentous occasion I want to wish you a grand
birthday!
Here's also wishing you happiness, good health, and
joy today and always.
All the best,
Waldo
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William Massey
(see
photo album) |
Nell:
I recently organized a birthday celebration for three
African American mathematicians this year.
We came up with a solution to the "candle problem".
Using binary notation, you can represent your birthday year with no more
than six candles (until you turn 128). Just let a lighted candle denote
a "1" and let an unlit candle denote a "0". A photo of a sample cake is
shown below.
So best wishes on your "111100"th birthday!
William A. Massey
William
A. Massey is Edwin S. Wiley Professor in the Department of Operations
Research and Financial Engineering at Princeton.
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Keith Mayes |
Dear Nell,
Sixty. Wow. After meeting your mom and dad, I see
that looking young runs in the family. I am proud to know that your sixtieth
birthday is coming a couple of months after OUR dissertation defense.
I will never forget, for as long as I live, the instructions you gave
me in March 2002--"shit, get off the pot, and defend by May." Of course
that's paraphrased but it was the best kick in the romp I ever received.
I just want to say that it has been wonderful knowing you these past six
years. You have been an avid supporter, a tough critic, and my biggest
booster. You are all that any graduate student can hope and wish for in
an advisor, constantly going beyond the call of duty. Though, I'm leaving
Princeton for Minnesota and will not have the luxury of seeing you as
often, much of what you instilled in me will remain for many years to
come. Have a happy sixtieth and in addition to writing history, make it--give
the world another sixty years of Nell Irvin Painter.
Keith Mayes
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Mark Mayfield |
Dear Nell,
Happy Birthday. We're so much alike. I've written one small book of fluff,
you've written 37 of solid research and substance. I struggled through two
degrees in college, you have 13 with honors from distinguished universities.
I am occasionally quoted in the Caney Chronicle, you are published throughout
the world. I have traveled to far places like Bismarck, you to places like
France. Now that I think about it, other than both being African-American,
we have little in common. So when I grow up, I want to be just like you.
That means a lot since that will require a sex change. Oh, enough of this
hyperbole and nonsense, what I really mean to say is that I hope you have
a great birthday and I will leave you with my favorite birthday poem:
You're not getting old when your hair turns gray,
You're not getting old when your teeth decay,
You're not getting old when you can't go to sleep,
But you are getting old when your mind makes a date that your body can't
keep.
Happy Birthday from your Cousin-in-law;
Mark Mayfield
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Debbie McDowell |
Dear Nell,
I am sending you this birthday wish in my loudest,
strongest voice, and you must remember that I have a very loud voice.
But my strong wishes are equalled only by my skepticism: You can't be
sixty and look the way you do. So when the celebrations are over and all
your many friends have raised their glasses, I'll expect a facsimile of
your birth certificate, since seeing, in this case, is not believing.
MANY, MANY HAPPY RETURNS.
Debbie McDowell
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Bill McFeely |
It is a pleasure to write in support of Nell Painter's
well-deserved nomination for the post of Most Distinquished Knitter in the
Historical Profession. Although some of us at a podium sweating through
a cantakerous paper have had a Dickensian thought when glancing down at
her sitting in the front row, hard at work, others, have no doubt been kept
warm, by her endless production of beautiful sweaters. I assume her work
will be on display when Dickinson Hall next mounts its first annual famous
crafts show in honor of her birthday.
Happy Birthday
Bill McFeely
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Charles McGruder |
My cousin Nell, who is in reality my only sister, .....
Congratulations on your 60th. It is preceded by many,
many outstanding accomplishments. You can look back with a great feeling
of satisfication. But I look forward to many, many more. Best wishes for
your after 60 years.
love, charley
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Nellie McKay
(see
photo album) |
Dear Nell,
Of course it is not possible to calculate how much
richer our friendship has made my life, and only when I think if how much
poorer it would have been can I begin to appreciate the blessings of the
almost-three decades that we have been so close to each other. With much
gratitude, I thank you for those years that only you could have given
with the love and caring and trust that passeth all human understanding.
I don't know that I wish for you another sixty years,
and I certainly don't promise to stay around for them if they come to
you. But what I do wish for you and me and all whom we love are good health
and the freedom to live them as we all desire.
With much love,
Nellie
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Jim McPherson |
Nell:
Having passed the milestone of 60 years and begun
the second half of my life five years ago, I welcome you to this exclusive
club of older but wiser codgers. It is a time to look back and take pride
in all you have accomplished, but also a time to look forward to more
great experiences in the future. So, congratulations and best wishes.
Jim McPherson
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Dorothy Mendez |
My Dearest Nell,
Congratulations on sixty years of magnificence. Your
are truly one of God's special people.
Have a wonderful birthday. May this year hold for
you many, many blessings, and may all your dreams and wishes come true.
Here's to you. Happy, Happy Birthday,
YOU GO GIRL
LOVE AND BLESSING
Sister Dorothy
First Church Family
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Honor Moore |
Well Nell,
You raise the bar of gorgeousness and brilliance at the tender age of 60
for all of us. I miss seeing you and being in touch, so know you can reach
me any time at HonorM@aol.com.... In any case, thinking of you and sending
very much love,
Honor
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John Murrin |
Warmest congratulations, Nell. I don't often get nostalgic
about the administrative assignments I have completed at Princeton, but
writing the search report that evenually brought you to Princeton in 1989
is a major exception. Have a great day.
All the best,
John Murrin
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Richard Newman |
Dear Nell,
I am absolutely delighted to join other friends,
colleagues, and admirers to wish you a happy birthday. Congratulations
to you! Please thank Glenn for giving me this opportunity. I am sorry
to be tardy, but I had a cerebral hemorrhage in January and have been
watching a lot of TV. I don't know whether it's really not so bad, or
if critical judgment is among the brain cells I lost. I came very close
to dying, and I will tell you that that experience communicates a powerful
and persuasive message. It is Du Bois's statement, "One thing alone
I charge you. As you live, believe in life!"
So all the very best to you, now and in the future.
Your work has meant so much to so many. We are all in your debt. Happy
birthday.
Sincerely,
Dick
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Roy & Ruth Nichols |
Happy Birthday Nell! We are proud of your many achievements
and are particularly enjoying your latest book, "Southern History Across
the Color Line." Don't stop new. Our friendship, which commenced during
the early days at Downs Memorial United Methodist Church, we covet. Our
whole family joins us in saying "Have a Great Day."
With much love,
Bishop Roy and Ruth Nichols.
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Philip Nord |
Dear Nell:
Deberoah and I want to wish you the happiest of birthdays.
Many congratulations.
Yours,
Phil
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Joyce Carol Oates & Ray Smith |
Happy birthday, Nell, and much love.
Joyce and Ray
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dt ogilvie |
Dear Nell,
First of all, if Glenn hadn't told me, there is no
way I would have guessed your age. You have such a youthful spirit and
appearance that it's difficult to grasp that you will be 60 next month!
While your scholarship is impressive, what impresses
me even more is your warmth and generosity. You are one of the most famous
historians in the world, yet you are very approachable and down-to-earth,
and as a young scholar meeting you for the first time years ago, I put
you in my role model category.
I wish you the best of birthdays, Nell. And now that
you are a Newark resident, I hope to have the opportunity to see you more
often. We should get together so I can buy you a celebratory drink at
one of our local hangouts.
Fondly,
dt
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Annelise Orleck |
Dear Nell,
I just wanted to wish you a superb sixtieth, to say
thank you for your crucial and caring interventions at a very vulnerable
and uncertain time of my career. Your support and your confidence in me
made a big difference, not to mention your steering me to North Carolina
which has done so well by my book.
Your career and you personally are an inspiration
to me, your charismatic teaching, your beautiful, accessible writing and
the risks you have taken all have influenced my own work. Not to mention
that you look unbelievably beautiful at sixty. If I look half as good,
I'll be thrilled.
big hugs and wishes for decades more birthdays.
Love,
Annelise
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Eduardo Pagán |
Dear Nell,
Ruth and I wish you a wonderful and happy 60th birthday,
and may we enjoy many, many more with you! As the years go on, and the
memories of what we discussed in graduate seminars fade with age, what
remains clearest in my mind is the example that you set for the rest of
us through your courage, your sacrifices, and your devotion to scholarship.
But what is perhaps brightest in my memory is the person you are. I have
never known of another professor who took the same level of care and interest
in her students as you. You welcomed us into your classroom, your office,
your home, and your life. You listened when we needed someone to listen,
you encouraged us when we needed encouraging, and you kicked us in the
butt when our butts needed kicking. And who you are played a role in shaping
who I am. Quite honestly, I don't know that I would have completed my
degree were you not there. You were the best mentor and advisor I could
ask for, and I am grateful to count myself among your extended family.
Eduardo Pagán
National Endowment for the Humanities
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Colin Painter |
It was the Roman poet Horace who pointed out that there
were many heroes before Agamemnon who are forgotten because they did not
have their poets. Ah! but that was before e-mail. Now, if you are a wonderful
person and have had a wonderful career, your chat site will be your griot.
It has been lovely to read the tributes. Let me add my own congratulations.
Many Happy Returns.
Colin
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Colin Palmer |
My warmest congratulations to Nell on this very special
and joyous occasion.
I first met Nell in 1980 when we both joined the
faculty of the University of North Carolina. My admiration and respect
for her have deepened over the years. A brilliant scholar and gifted teacher,
Nell has touched and enriched all of us who have been fortunate to know
her. She is a wonderful human being, decent, generous, caring, and wise.
Nell represents the best in us. May she continue to enjoy life's many
blessings and may good fortune continue to smile upon her.
Colin Palmer
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Gayle Pemberton |
Happy Birthday, Nell!
Your graciousness is only exceeded by your intelligence and scholarship.
It is a pleasure to know you. Many Happy Returns.
Love, Gayle
Gayle Pemberton
Professor of English, African American, and American Studies
Wesleyan University
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Arlie & Marcie Petters |
Dear Nell,
Happy birthday!
Cheers to you ... whose unconditional love and support
our community is blessed to have!
Big hugs and kisses.
Love,
Arlie and Marcia
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Arnold Rampersad |
Dear Nell,
Marvina and I send you our love on this your Sixtieth
Birthday. May you have many happy birthdays to come!--something that's
bound to happen since you hardly look a day over many many years ago.
We are very happy to be able to join in this celebration, if only in cyberspace.
You have accomplished so much and have so much still to accomplish that
you wish to accomplish--rather than rest on your abundance of laurels--that
we know that you will enjoy this day looking backward with pleasure and
forward with keen anticipation.
Happy Birthday, Nell!
Love,
Arnold
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Phillip & Jessie Raymond |
Dear Nell,
Happy 60th Birthday!
It has been a pleasure watching your growth, development
and achievement through the years. You have been an outstanding role model
for our sons and many others who have gone on to achieve higher goals
because of your inspiration.
Congratulations on your new book and best wishes
for all your future endeavors.
Phillip and Jessie Raymond
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Sheldon & Diana Reaven |
Dear Nell,
Uh-oh...ANOTHER big birthday is rolling around?
Oy! Grin and bear it (what's the alternative?) with stately grace and
insouciance -- or at least fake it. You're such a gem: keep on sparkling.
We miss you and Glenn -- we gotta hang out soon.
Fondly,
Sheldon and Diana
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Douris Reed |
Dear Nell:
I want to add my voice to the chorus that is singing
Happy Birthday to you. You bring so much to life, it's just a great honor
and pleasure to know you. May you live a long, healthy and happy life
and continue to spread your gifts. Love and happiness.
Douris Reed
First Church of Religious Science Family.
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Linda Reed |
Happy Birthday, Nell! It has been great having you as
a mentor and friend for these past fifteen-plus years. I think I can speak
on behalf of so many other scholars whose work and careers you have touched
with words of encouragement and clear guidance in how to improve our written
work or handle a certain professional (and/or personal) situation. We love
you and wish you many happy returns on the anniversary of your birth!
Linda Reed
University of Houston
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Samuel Roberts |
Happy Birthday Nell!
For the longest time, I didn't know how I was going
to write my birthday salutations. Having read several drafts of my dissertation,
you especially know the difficulty I often have in putting thoughts to
computer screen. Some drafts were way too effusive for Nell "tough-as-nails"
Painter. Others too staid to really capture my appreciation for your mentorship,
advising, and friendship. I hope that this one conveys the depth of sentiment
that has grown since 1995, when we first met.
Nell, you're the greatest. When I decided to come
to Princeton and work with you, I knew your work, and heard about your
fabulous advising skills, but had absolutely no idea how important a good
mentor would be. I shudder to think what would have happened had I not
come to New Jersey.
I was ignorant on that and many other things. Quite
frankly, I decided to go to graduate school with little other motivation
than that I enjoyed studying, reading, and exploring history. I showed
up at Princeton, and, honestly, had my butt kicked eighteen different
ways. Yet you were always there, even when others had written me off (names
omitted to protect the guilty), to let me know that you believed in my
ability. You don't know how important that was, especially since I frequently
had inadequate faith to continue the work.
Ah, so now for a trip down memory lane
Fall
of 1997, and Crystal, Ken, Barbara, et al, are all asking me if I've had
the "Call me Nell" talk. Serious buzz in small-town Princeton,
New Jersey. It seems that Professor Painter, no-BS-and-hard-as-nails,
has decided to individually tell her students that they may call her Nell.
Of course, having just come off the anxiety of general examinations, I
privately wondered if this possibly was a courtesy that would not be extended
to yours truly. In fact, back then I wondered if I could even bring myself
to address you as anything but "Prof. Painter." I had only known
you as the tough-as-nails professor for whom I worked the hardest, and
couldn't imagine being on a first-name basis. The time came, however,
at a party on FitzRandolph Road, and I clearly remember calling you Professor
Painter and you interrupting me and saying "Sam, you can call me
Nell." If you remember this at all, you probably recall me grinning
stupidly, stuttering out, "Thank you, er, Nell", and nearly
forgetting what it was I was about to say in the first place. Since then
it has been an honor that I have cherished jealously, and for which I
have worked hard to be worthy.
Don't get me wrong. Nobody begrudges you for being
"tough as nails." Quite the opposite. You'll remember at the
Boston American Historical Association annual meeting, you and I had a
drink after you had been named the Nancy Roelker Teaching Award recipient
(I had just finished a job interview, and to have a one-on-one drink with
my advisor, at the beginning of my career, was another memorable moment).
I told you then, and I tell anyone who may read this open letter, that
all of your students had benefited from your hard-as-nails style. For
a number of years, I and the rest of your students have watched you fight
battles that we had neither the power nor courage to fight ourselves.
Even more, we enjoyed the legends and myths that trickled down to us and
were oft-told among your admirers (your near-defection to Yale, for example).
No offense to Roelker or the award that bears her
name, but an accolade that has only the word 'teaching' in its title fails
to capture the extent to which you have affected a generation of scholars.
You are a wonderful teacher, but so much of what I have learned from you
has come outside the classroom setting and your pedagogical style. Reading
your work has taught me immensely what it means to be a historian, and
how to define my own career. No one could suggest in the classroom wildly
creative approaches to performing our craft had she not established through
her scholarship that such approaches could, and should, be done. I'm talking
about interdisciplinarity, the use of unorthodox and sometimes controversial
methods, the honest and rigorous interrogation of sources and received
knowledge.
Another trip down memory lane
A couple of years
ago, I took your History of the U.S. South graduate course. The first
two weeks were devoted almost entirely to the political uses of violence
in Nazi Germany and Central and South America during the 1980s and 1990s.
A wet-behind-the-ears first-year student who did not know your style asked
why we were reading, of all things, about topics that were out of place
and time in considering Southern History. By this time, I knew something
of your style, and simply smiled. Your response was, "The American
South has been an extremely violent place, against blacks, against women,
against the poor, but it will no longer do for us to simply say so and
keep moving. We must theorize Southern violence, and it may help to do
so comparatively." It was classic Nell Painter.
I have left Princeton and graduate school life. I
don't miss the pecking order (I've graduated from one hierarchy to another).
I certainly don't miss the miserly stipend which I was able to augment
with grants and fellowships obtained in no small part through your glowing
letters of recommendation. I do miss, however, having the daily interactions
with you and the circle of impressive and original students you always
attract - Crystal, Ken, Barbara, Marie, Stacey, Chad, Malinda. At the
same time, I know that I am prepared, because you always told me how to
be so. I often think of the times when I didn't know what the hell I was
doing with my work, or in graduate school for that matter, and how you
kept the faith for me, kept me level-headed and confident. I remember
the innumerable conversations, even during my first year of graduate school,
when you offered advice that began with "Sam, when you're a professor",
signaling to me your firm belief in something that, for you, was never
in doubt and only a matter of eventuality. I remember being introduced
by you to other leading scholars, at which time you would ask them, "Have
you met Sam Roberts?", as if not having acquaintance with me, a third-year
student who on a good day might articulate one decent idea, was something
that had to be immediately rectified. Today, as I exchange advisor stories
with colleagues and friends, I realize that these are the things that
most professors do not do, but that I have vowed to replicate when I take
on students.
About five years ago, you told me that you were considering
retirement and that I would probably be your last student (at the time,
I occasionally wondered if having to deal with me had influenced your
decision (smile). I'm glad that you've taken on three other classes, and
I sincerely hope there will be more. It has been no small honor and challenge
to be your student and to live up to your example. On behalf of all of
us, I express our deepest thanks.
Love, Sam
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Tom Roberts |
Dear Nell,
Happiness is the result of wonderful friendships.
I very often find myself thinking of you and smiling and feeling good
to have you as a best friend. Also I thank you for being one of my two
favorite clients (the other being Leah). Although we are often many thousands
of miles apart, our sharing of lives enriches me. I treasure all of our
many conversations and your letters (and e-mails) and look forward to
many more. Each June and July I think of you and smile while we are the
same age. Is it not wonderful to feel young and to be enjoying life fully
one day at a time? We hope to get you out to enjoy some winter sunshine
this year.
Love,
Tom
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Noliwe Rooks |
Nell, I have a memory from the not too distant past
of our flying down some road or other in your very cute convertible car.
Your mother is there and we three are looking much more than merely attractive.
I told you then that your commitment to your vision of the future, recent
choices and newfound ability to prioritize your mental and emotional health
made me so very proud of you. None of the above is insignificant. Dreams
are vital, choices are key, and as we have had to come to know in the past
few years, health in any of its forms is very, very precious and much more
difficult to come by and hold to tightly than is academic success. I am
repeating this memory now because you told me once to make a habit of saying
and repeating often that which we want the people we respect to know. You
told me that it is important to talk while they are still here to listen.
I want you to know that the breadth of your intellectual
interests is startling. I want you to know that you are brilliant. I want
you to know that your thinking has deeply influenced mine. I want you
to know that you are a writer with no small amount of either talent or
skill. I want you to know that the consistency of your scholarly production
is humbling. I want you to know that the academy is much enriched by your
presence.
I want you to know that you are a friend who has
proved it regularly from the day I first e-mailed you.
I want you to know that your fifties looked so good
on you that I am "straight up" afraid to see what you will do with your
sixties and beyond.
I want you to know that I noticed.
Happy Sixtieth Birthday
Noliwe Rooks
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Angela & Adrian Rosenthal |
Dear Nell, good morning,
und ganz ganz herzlichen Glückwunsch zu deinem
60. Geburtstag!
It is over two years ago since I first met you and
since you made an instant impression on my life. Gazing across the lecture
hall at a conference at Dartmouth, I caught site of this elegant and attractive
women knitting. Imagining that you were surely absorbed in private deliberations
over textures and hues, I was caught off guard when you were not only
the first to ask a question, but also, what a question! The specifics
of your comment need not be elaborated here--they related to ivory and
different tones and textures of white--but its context is woven into my
memory.
Since then, you and Glenn have spent several months
in Berlin, and in the meantime you now speak my mother tongue, we also
share some German friends, and other interests. I admire your readiness
to learn, your eagerness to explore novelty, and your willingness to re-invent.
Adrian and I still remember fondly moments we shared
on our front porch, watching the neighborhood, discussing lives, and admiring
your new convertible. Back then you told me that you hoped to find some
time to study again--fine arts of course. I keep thinking that it would
be fun to have an experimental painterly dialogue with you, a mutual portrait
session so to speak, just to see what we would come up with, even before
art school.
After a few days of an early summer heat wave, a
thunder storm is menacing. Before I rush around to shut the windows, let
me close this note with Adrian and my sincere wishes for a healthy, happy
and exciting future. We wish to celebrate this birthday, as an important
moment in an outstanding career and in an enviable life. We appreciate
the joy and elegance that you embody.
Many happy returns,
Love Angela and Adrian
P.S.: The webpage your family has created for you
is truly beautiful. I love the photograph of your parents' 63rd wedding-anniversary--what
role models they are!
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Nichole Rustin |
Professor Painter,
Best wishes on your birthday and continued success
and happiness for the future. Thank you for your encouragement, warmth,
and intellectual energy, rigor, and commitment.
With warm regards,
Dr. Nichole T. Rustin
University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign
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Leslie Sanders |
Celebrating your grace, knowledge and wisdom, Nell,
and also the fun we've had - with our mutual friend!
Love on your birthday and always,
Leslie
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Patricia Schechter
(see
photo album) |
Dear Nell,
When I look out at a lecture hall full of students,
at an unfamiliar conference audience, at my blank computer screen, or
a pile of papers to edit or grade, your example of excellence, committment,
and wisdom somehow reaches me, all the way out here in Oregon. Thank you
so much for sharing your warmth, humour, courage, and great style with
your students, the profession, and the world.
You promised us a painted portrait when you pick
up the brush and pallet. We'll come find you when you call, where ever
and whenever that may be.
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Love,
Patty Schechter
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Edna Schenkel |
Happy Birthday, Nell Painter! You are truly a 21st century
woman. Who else would have a cyber birthday celebration?
As your lecture agent for the past six years, you
have made my job easy. You are the perfect speaker intelligent,
articulate, accomplished, attractive, accommodating and undaunted by small
planes!
I'm pleased that our professional relationship has
grown into a personal one, and I am honored to be counted among your friends
even though we have yet to meet!
All your fans at Greater Talent Network join me in
wishing you the very best of birthdays. Let the celebrations continue!
Enjoy it all.
Warmest regards,
Edna Schenkel
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Richard Scherl & Soheila Kobler |
Dear Nell:
Happy Birthday!! We wish you many more happy and
productive years.
Rich & Soheila
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Norman & Liz Schofield |
Happy Birthday Dear Nell.
The time we spent in Palo Alto was one of those good
times. The configuration of the stars must have been just right. And you
were the best neighbor. Sitting out on the stoop, drinking wine, idly
chatting about this and that - it could not have been better.
Love,
Norman & Liz Schofield
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Carl Schorske |
Dear Nell,
"....Happy Birhtday dear
Ne-ell,
"Happy Birthday to you!"
I want not only to sing to you loud and clear, but
more: to apply a lesson of yours by sending the song of your day in Seven
Shape Notation. I learned of the latter from you and Hosea Hudson, whose
life of feeling, thought and action you limned with such sympathetic understanding.
But once again, the computer defeats me. I can get it neither to carry
my voice live nor to convey my song to you in the lovely, simple, musical
script Hosea used.
It may be your birthday, Nell, but we all get the
presents: the products of your passionate, illuminating scholarship and
teaching. Many thanks, and heartiest congratulations!
Affectionately,
Carl Schorske
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Joyce Seltzer |
Nell,
Although I always admire your ever-changing elegant
yet sturdy shoes, it's really just a stand-in for the whole, ever-changing,
ever-original, elegant yet sturdy you. Seeing you at conferences or at
Princeton is always a breath of fresh and vital air that I inhale deeply
and get giddy on. It's a pleasure to know you and to have this chance
to send you love and warm wishes for a wonderful year ahead.
Toujours gai!
Je t'embrasse,
Joyce
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Dee Shafer
(see
photo album) |
Happy Birthday Nell. I'm very proud to have you as a
sister-in-law, both because of your many accomplishments and because of
who you are as a person. Please come and visit us in the redwoods sometime.
Dee
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Dennis Shafer
(see
photo album) |
Dear Nell,
Happy Birthday! It seems just yesterday that I was
tap-dancing with your mom at your wedding. You have been a great role
model for me since then, teaching me everything from table manners to
francais. Congratulations on being 60, and I hope you have a great second
career as an artist!
Bises,
Dennis
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Glenn Shafer
(see
photo album) |
Nell, my love,
I hope the good wishes and warm thoughts of your
friends will give you pleasure for many years.
Love,
Glenn
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Janet Shafer
(see
photo album) |
Nell,
Have the happiest of birthdays! I'm so glad my brother
married you! I've enjoyed all the times I've visited, and you've always
made me feel welcome.
It's been an honor to work on your web site. It's been
a joy to work with Glenn (the relentless editor), and the initial work
Rick did was very helpful, too. I've also enjoyed getting to know your
friends through posting the web site messages. I hope the web site brings
you pleasure and satisfaction.
Love and best wishes,
Janet
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Rick Shafer
(see
photo album) |
Nell,
After knowing you half my life, I still have no idea
what you'll do next. Or even half the things you've done already, as I
intermittently discover a whole range of expertise and experience that
I would never have imagine you had. (Like when you told me some of what
you know about co-ops.)
As many resources as you have, it is possible for
you to do on a whim what many people must contemplate and struggle to
do e.g., traveling to Europe or buying something expensive. But
I see you committing yourself to what you do in a way that many people
of extensive means would never do.
You give all your effort to many of the things you
do. You are clearly moving to Newark for a good set of reasons that go
well beyond the superficial or self-interested considerations to which
far too many people limit themselves (many of whom, I believe, limit themselves
thus because they are repeatedly told to). Of course I can't get in your
head and say all the reasons, but I can see that you are about to dive
in and become part of a community that is finally rising again after decades
of misery and disaster.
Many a person would never contemplate such a thing.
More to the point, the vast majority of people in New Jersey don't have
the courage to move to any of the historic cities, and they don't have
the balls to stand up and say, "I'm from Newark," even among
those who don't have the strong racist bias that so many New Jerseyans
display toward your new home. And many who might would still hedge and
dodge and tell their friends that they have some overwhelming practical
reason like being close to New York and insist they have no intrinsic
interest in their community.
But I can't see you doing that. What I see is you
moving forward and believing in what you're doing. You'll be enjoying
yourself as you contribute to and benefit from a real city, but simultaneously
you'll be making a point. It is, of course, your point to make; but I
believe it is a point about the value of cities, about the racially polarized
nature of our state and nation, about revitalization and renewal and the
opportunity for happiness in a place that has been largely denied it for
so very long. It will be a valid point because you live it.
In your sixty-and-counting years you have lived so
very much. You have lived on three continents, spoken more than a couple
languages, learned from people with all kinds of points of view, and staked
out an intellectual and moral ground to call your own. As such you are
someone to admire, and as such I have quite a challenge to live up to
the standard you set.
Happy birthday, Nell.
-Rick
[Nell's stepson]
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Roy Shafer
(see
photo album) |
Happy Birthday Nell!! We're happy to have you in the
family - and we enjoyed meeting you at your and Glenn's wedding in Princeton,
and then having you visit us here in Caney. Hope you can visit us again
soon.
Best wishes from the Kansas Shafers
Roy, Ruth, and Garold Shafer
(Roy is Glenn's brother)
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Harold & Vivian Shapiro |
Both Vivian and I are delighted to be able to congratulate
Nell on reaching this milestone. For both of us, however, Nell seems to
be getting younger each year, so we are not sure just what it means to be
celebrating her 60th! Given our own metrics we think of Nell as only about
to reach the prime of her life at least as judged by the many ways she enriches
the personal and professional lives of those who are fortunate enough to
share a common community with her. Please convey to Nell our hearty congratulations.
Harold Shapiro
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Judith Shapiro |
Dear Nell,
You were my comrade in arms, conversations, and handicrafts
during the spring of 1989 at the Center and you were a large part of what
made that time so wonderful. (That loose sweater I made has just kept
stretching and stretching and stretching, and would now fit Jesse Ventura.)
I also remember your role in the wonderful panel we did at Bryn Mawr on
women during the Civil War. Above all, though, I remember singing "Ana
Hava Babanot" at your wedding and having a lot of people ask me which
one of you was Jewish. Many good years since then and many more to come.
It is long past time for us to get together!!
With love and fond memories,
Judith
Judith Shapiro is President of Barnard College
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Prakash Shenoy |
Dear Nell,
Congratulations on your 60th birthday! I can't believe
you are 60. We (Glenn's friends at KU) don't hold any grudges for taking
Glenn away from us.
Best wishes,
Prakash Shenoy
PS Hooray to Glenn for doing this website. If I
tried to do something similar for Cathy (and reveal her age to the entire
world), she would kill me.
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Jill & Norman Sheppard |
Dear Nell
Seeing we are celebrating your 60th birthday, we
guess it's not embarassing to begin by saying we've known you for a little
over half that number of years.
The first time you came to stay with us we've never
forgotten: the whole family - us, Tim, the cat Sheba, and even Rosette,
the North African au pair - all fell for your charm, and nearly crowded
you out of the room!
Since then we've corresponded (irregularly), visited
in Britain, France, Berlin and Maine (erratically). Jill (a mediaevalist)
has learnt something new each time. Norman has acquired some choice knitwear
(still feels good). Jill has particularly appreciatged receiving so many
of your publications, which as an averagely ignorant Brit, have taught
her a great deal about your country.
It was quite clear when Frank came to stay where
some of the niceness, charm and other characteristics came from. We have
yet to meet Dona -sooner than later as we may not 'look that good when
we're that old'.
We both look forward to many more letters and meetings
and hopefully books. One day soon we hope to see you open your first exhibition
of paintings.
Jill and Norman
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Suzanne & Larry Sherr |
Dear Nell,
Happy Birthday. We want to add our good wishes to
all those coming your way on this milestone event. Glad to have known
you for a portion of these years. Looking forward to many more opportunities
to say HAPPY BIRTHDAY, NELL.
Suzanne and Larry Sherr
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Ruth Simmons |
Dear Nell,
Congratulations on this important milestone. When
I think back to our days at Harvard, I am reminded of how long you have
been a source of inspiration for me. Few can claim to be original but
you are certainly in that distinctive class. While I take great pride
in your many accomplishments, I am especially proud of who you are as
a human being. I am pleased to be your friend, drawing inspiration like
so many others from the lively and beautiful example you have set.
Thank you, dear Nell, and much love on you sixtieth!
Ruth J. Simmons
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Kathryn Kish Sklar |
Dear Nell --
What a grand occasion! Enjoy every minute of your
birthday. The glow of your spirit has infused with a special light the
world that we inhabit as historians. Thank you for sharing your special
grace so generously with the rest of us.
Kitty
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Stephanie Smallwood |
Happy Birthday Nell!
As I write this birthday greeting I have on my mind
a photo of eight gorgeous black women academics, ranging in age from our
twenties to not quite sixty (guess who?). We are each of us beautiful
in our own way, but it is our collective radiance that makes the photo
truly stunning. Damn we look good! (If you've not yet seen the photo,
ask Daphne to make a copy for you). This image of multi-generational brilliance
and beauty (and others like it posted on this wonderful website) reminds
me of something I said to you privately several years ago, about the kinds
of opportunities and choices a black little girl like me could grow up
to have because of the enormous impact of forebears like yourself. Wanting
you to know on your sixtieth that the path paved by your choices, your
courage, and your battles won and lost, is honored and cherished by those
following behind you. Thank you for being the beautiful, bold trailblazer
that you are!
With love and thanks,
Stephanie
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Frances Foster Smith |
Nellie alerted me to this event and I think it is absolutely
wonderful.
I congratulate Nell on this historical event -- a
half century and a decade of living, loving and learning. I have am so
grateful that I am among those who owe you for your personal interest,
professional counsel, and all round example for how to live with integrity,
courage and goodwill -- all the while stirring the waters with significant,
serious, and "contrary" findings that help write the record right.
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Jackie & Ernest Smith
(see
photo album) |
Dear Nell,
60 years make a great person.
Happy Birthday
Love,
Jackie & Ernest Smith
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Nigel Smith & Kate Flint |
Dear Glenn,
We met at Val Smith's house warming party, and I
heard that you were establishing a website for Nell's big birthday. If
this is the case, I'd like to add our own very best wishes to Nell. In
the short time we've known her, she's been a great friend and a very stimulating
presence.
Best wishes,
Nigel Smith (Associate Chair, English Dept., Princeton University)
Kate Flint (English Dept., Rutgers University)
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Valerie Smith |
Dear Nell,
I continue to be dazzled and inspired by your brilliance,
energy, wisdom, productivity, warmth, passion and sheer gorgeousness.
I hope that your sixtieth birthday will mark the beginning of a new and
even more stunning stage of your life, one rich with ideas, health, love,
beauty and grace.
With love,
Val
Valerie Smith
Princeton University
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Rick Sobel |
Nell, Congratulations on the celebration of the your
60th birthday. A few highlights of our work together stand out: First is
the creation of what is now the annual Norfleet/Simpson book prize for community
leadership when you were acting chair at Afro-Am in 1991. Second is serving
as (head?) preceptor of your course on the history of the American South
and learning about geography, literature, labor, family and music. Third
is being a political scientist described and mentored by you as a "budding
young historian." Fourth was participating in your New History Seminar at
your home. Finally and more locally, it was fun meeting you with Skip Gates
in Harvard Square before your talk on Sojourner Truth at the Brattle Theater.
For all these and many more, I send my thanks and most expressive greetings
for a wonderful celebration and many more to come.
Best,
Rick Sobel
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Hortense Spillers |
Yes, Glenn! Please tell Nell that her "elder" sends
her congratulations. I was sixty on 24 April! One of these years, we should
have a joint party for all the sixties people. My suggestion: we all go
to Milan together and shop! I'd have done it this year if I could have gotten
out of classes.
All my best to you and Nell.
Hortense
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Rajendra Srivastava |
Dear Nell:
Congratulations on your 60th birthday! You look too
young to be sixty! By the way, I turned sixty too last month (July 5)
and I don't feel it or think that I am that old.
I wish you a happy, healthy, and productive years
ahead.
Raj
Rajendra Srivastava
Lawrence, Kansas
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Anne & Dorothy Sterling |
Happy Birthday, Nell.
Love, Dorothy Sterling
(and Happy Birthday from me too; Best Wishes, Anne
Sterling)
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Lillian & Ted Stewart |
Happy Birthday Nell!
Ted and I are so happy to join your family and friends
in wishing you a happy 60th birthday. Because our birthdays are a day
apart, I love the way we have contacted each other by phone or by mail
on our birthdays every year. I treasure those moments.
Happy Birthday Nell!
Enjoy your day.........Enjoy your year.....Celebrate,
We love you.
Lillian & Ted
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Margaret Stortz |
Dear Nell,
What a wonderful idea that Glenn has......to put
up lots of birthday greetings on your website. I am so pleased to have
been invited by your mother to participate. 60 is another of those great
milestones which can be viewed with some ambivalence. (Am I older? Am
I wiser? Can I be both, or simply older?) This took place in my life seven
years ago right around this time. (My birthday is just four days before
yours.) It took me awhile to adjust to this turn of the decade, but it
also became the road in to another phase of my life. After 60, I retired;
I returned to University life; I got a Degree; I set up a Master's Program.
So I know that this time portends great possibilities for you. There are
many "next steps" ahead for you, and you are in a more wonderful position
than ever to walk into them. Like fine wine, time has done well by you.
Here's to a magnificent Celebration...........and of course, many more.
Only The Best!
Margaret Stortz
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Carol Swain
(see
photo album) |
Congratulations Nell Painter!
What a wonderful tribute for a woman of your distinction
and grace. Indeed, you have been a shining inspiration for many, many
people.
May God continue to prosper you and Glenn with good
health and longevity. Always remember that you are much too blessed to
be stressed.
Remember also the words of the wise King Solomon:
"Vanity of vanities, saith the Preacher, vanity of vanities; all is vanity."
His conclusion after much reflection was that man should "fear God, and
keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man." Never, never
be too much of an intellectual to recognize the power and authority that
God continues to exercise over our lives.
Your Born Again in Christ Friend,
Carol M. Swain
Vanderbilt University
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Howard Taylor |
FWow -- 60th! Not that I'm admitting that I am there
yet, but there is a social-psychological principle at work; it goes something
like this: The closer you get to an age, the younger it sounds to you. Right?
Remember how old 30, then 40, etc sounded until you reached those ages?
Hence, 60 should sound not-so-old today, now that you are there, Nell!!
BUT: problem! Sixty STILL sounded old to me when I turned 60 (a mere few
seconds ago) and so I trust 60 still sounds old to you, as well! So there.
But you have got this wonderful baby face! That's
a decided asset, so don't take what I am saying as even vaguely insulting!
This is all to say: Warm congratulations to you,
baby face and all, on your 60th! Aren't you enjoying your cabin in the
wooded mountains? By the way: Aug 2 is Leo -- right? I thought so.
Love -- Howard Taylor
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Rosalyn Terborg-Penn |
My dear friend and colleague Nell, do you believe that
we have known one another now nearly half of our lives? What a pleasant
thought for me, because I treasure our friendship and welcome you to the
"sixty" club. In celebrating this milestone in your life, let me say that
I must congratulate you for looking wonderful, for becoming a major scholar
in our field, for being a master teacher with former Ph.D. students who
have become part of your legacy, and for supporting your fellow scholars
whenever they call upon you for assistance. I certainly have benefited through
the years from your kindness and generosity.
Here's to a long and continued productive life, and
twenty-five years from now when you reach Dona Irvin's age, "I hope you
look that good when you're that old."
Fond and sincere wishes,
Rosalyn
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Joshua Theriot & Vera Winston |
Dear Nell,
You will soon celebrate your 60th birthday. Vera
and I wish you a Happy Birthday and a glorious celebration.
Joshua Theriot and Vera Winston
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Felicia Thomas |
Nell,
You are an exemplary scholar,
a wonderful teacher,
a caring mentor,
and a generous friend.
Happy 60th birthday.
You wear it well, but then you are a queen.
Felicia
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Robert Tignor |
Nell,
My congratulations to you on reaching the sixty mark,
which, as you know, is no longer the speed limit on the super highways.
You are certainly on one of the super highways, and you have a free, get
out of jail card to cruise along at any speed you like. It seems just
a short time ago that you came to dinner over at our house as we tried
to persuade you that Princeton was the place for you. We succeeded, and
I am sure that you are not sorry that you came. Lots of good students
and lots of intellectual excitement, made all the better by your lively
inputs. How long ago was that? Quite a few years, I imagine. Many more
happy returns and many more books, articles, speeches, and the like.
Bob Tignor
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Kate Torrey |
To Nell--a marvelous writer, an insightful historian,
and a fearless scholar--with love, admiration, and all good wishes on the
occasion of your 60th birthday. May you revel not only in the day but in
all the marvelous things that lie ahead for you. Congratulations on all
your many achievements and contributions, Kate
Kate Douglas Torrey
Director, UNC Press
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Alan Trachtenberg |
Nell,
It's a pleasure to greet you on this milestone birthday.
I think back to the revived American Writers Congress of years ago, China,
your visits to Yale, countless meetings here and there. Keep going!
Alan
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Richard Turits |
Dear Nell,
Happy 60th birthday! May it be a joyous one and prelude
to new joys and accomplishments as well. It's wonderful having you as
a colleague, learning from you, working with you, sharing music with you...
All best wishes, Richard
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Bill Tuttle |
Dear Nell,
Happy Birthday!
You're still as beautiful as you were when we became
friends in 1972. I was a fellow at the time at the Charles Warren Center.
You were finishing your doctorate and serving, as I recall, as the director
of a residence hall at Radcliffe.
In fact, one of my fondest memories of you dates
from that time and from the living room in that very dormitory. You had
arranged an informal talk by Flo Kennedy. The place was packed. Flo, wearing
that big bullet on a chain around her neck, was provocative and "right
on." And then Martin Kilson arrived to confront her over some issue. The
tension mounted as both he and Flo got louder. I looked over to see how
you, as the official in charge, was reacting to this contretemps. And
you were beaming, thoroughly enjoying the entire spectacle.
Nell, you have always stood for personal integrity
and honesty, and you have fought your whole life for racial and gender
equality and for social democracy.
It's been a pleasure being your friend all these
years.
Happy Birthday, Nell.
Love,
Bill
Bill Tuttle
Professor of American Studies
University of Kansas
Lawrence, KS 66045
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Joe VanZandt |
Dear Nell,
I am not sure that anyone deserves congratulations
for merely living to the age of 60, but to have lived those 60 years in
a manner as remarkable and distinguished as you have done is indeed a
cause for celebration. I remember first meeting you in Glenn's home in
Lawrence, long before I knew or appreciated the extent of your accomplishments.
Your grace, natural ease and engaging personality put me immediately at
ease. I was delighted to see the growth and consummation of your relationship
with Glenn. The joy you brought to Glenn's life was, and remains, immeasurable.
Over the years, I have gradually come to know and admire your work in
history and historical biography; I assure you, my admiration of the work
and its author would not have been diminished had I not been so fortunate
as to count you and Glenn among my friends. I send you my deepest best
wishes on the occasion of your 60th birthday; may the coming decades be
as fruitful and full of joy as the first six have been.
With warmest regards and deepest admiration, I wish
you a wonderful birthday!
Yours in friendship,
Joe D. VanZandt
Lawrence, Kansas
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Margaret Rose Vendryes
(see
photo album) |
Dearest Nell,
Make art Nell!!! Take William James's advice, "the
right time is anytime."
Although we have had precious few moments together,
each and every one is etched in my memory. I still laugh when I recall
how you took one look at Richmond Barthé's mother and said she
looked like more of a man than her son!! You are proof that the academic
life does not drain the humor out of a scholar. There are times that I
question what I am doing in the academy. Often the fit feels uncomfortable.
Times like these, women like you, who openly revel in the joys of work
and play, remind me that adjustments can be made to create a better fit.
You are an inspiration to do more, do what's best,
be true to self, and have a good time at it. Thank you for including me
in your circle of friends. I know that the artists in us will always remain
connected.
All good things, M
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Volodya Vovk |
Dear Nell -- Happy birthday! Many thanks for your support,
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